I’m a female member. It looks like letter dates have started.
This content is machine-translated.
How many letter-date offers have actually been matched so far?
Also, if we apply through the letter-date service, exchange contact information, arrange our own schedules, and go on a date, that means we can date at an exceptionally low price. But in that case, I feel like I’m being sold cheap... I’d like to hear your thoughts on that.
I’m in Seattle.
I’d say you can only really tell whether you’re underselling yourself once things shift into a free-form relationship after the second meeting.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering your question.
Thank you for your question.
This would only become an issue if men joining in the future signed up because of the lower setting fee. Existing members joined after agreeing to the original setting fee.
So even if the setting fee has been reduced, I don’t think there’s any problem with women continuing to ask for the same allowance as before.
If the allowance offered is lower than what you’re looking for, you can simply decline.
If you don’t want to undersell yourself, just turn down any offer below your desired allowance. That way, you aren’t underselling yourself.
The same applies even if the setting fee were zero.
Best of luck.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Things seem to be off to a good start with Letter Dates at my branch.
Well, with a Letter Date, it ends if the woman doesn’t reply to the offer—the date request—so it’s possible that men are sending offers but not getting any responses.
In that case, they just move on to the next one… Maybe they’re sending offer after offer.
From the club’s perspective, there’s no problem with that. The male members are taking a numbers-game approach, thinking, “Surely someone will respond to me, right?” Meanwhile, the female members may be skipping them one after another, thinking, “What the heck?”
So maybe that’s why things seem to be off to such a good start.（笑）
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you feel uncomfortable because the woman asking seems to be underselling herself, why not simply decline her request for a letter date? You do see quite a few women who don’t accept online dates.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
