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Dec 4, 2020 00:52
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My question is: What can we do to make sure Sana-san, Romane-san, and Papuwa-san stay with us instead of quitting? If I were to try offering to meet one of the female respondents through Maezawa-san, would that be of any help?
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering as well.
Thank you for your question.
Looking at Papuwa’s answer, I feel things might change a little if you hired a young man part-time, had him read all the columns, and significantly increased the page views first.
Then, you could cover the membership and setup fees for men who said they liked Papuwa’s writing and have them make offers to Papuwa.
That said, I don’t think the questioner could realistically go that far.
Still, if you make an offer and speak with her directly, you may hear things that aren’t written here. If it were me, I might consider making an offer and going on a date.
However, some women may feel hesitant about people who expect her real-life personality to match the character she presents in her writing. So when making an offer, it might be better to prepare a detailed explanation of your reasons.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Offering something to the female respondent might help in some way, but I feel that thinking this way is a bit presumptuous. Wanting her not to quit is your own personal wish—how appropriate is it to impose that wish on someone else?
You joined the club for a reason. There are plenty of female club members who would appreciate someone lending them a helping hand. Please turn your attention toward them instead.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Like you, I also find it unfortunate, but I think it’s wrong for others to try to interfere with a decision made by consenting adults. Besides, I doubt a mere offer would change anything.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I'm Joe.
I feel disappointed too. However, isn't the basic rule that you don't chase after someone who chooses to leave?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
In the men’s esthetics industry, male customers who pay to visit often let their imaginations run wild, telling themselves, “I’m a big spender, I’m special, she likes me, she’s into me, I’m different from her other customers, and she’ll date me once she quits.”
But as long as they keep going to the establishment and paying, they’re almost 100% likely to be seen in the exact opposite way—as annoying, with no genuine interest or affection whatsoever.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who feels it’s important to recognize both the power and the emptiness of money.
What’s more, a man’s mind is almost 100% occupied with women,
whereas a woman’s mind is almost 100% occupied with things other than men—she’s simply not interested.
Why not focus your attention on the woman who has actually appeared in front of you—the one you made an offer to...?