Kida here with an answer as well.
Aizawa went and wrote something unusually insightful, so there isn’t really anything left for me to add. But I assume what you’re hoping for is:
“I want to meet a woman who hasn’t received many offers.”
You may feel that a woman who has received a lot of offers is more experienced, has higher expectations, compares you with other men, or that you simply don’t want to share her with other papas.
Some women may indeed be like that, but there are just as many who aren’t.
If a woman is registered with Universe Club, she has either registered with or previously used another club, has experience with dating apps, or has no experience at all.
That said, there are probably very few women in the Platinum class or above who are completely inexperienced.
So, a woman who has received few offers isn’t necessarily innocent and inexperienced, has low expectations, doesn’t compare you with other men, or has no other papas.
That’s why I believe giving you the exact number of offers she has received through Universe Club would only create unnecessary friction between the two of you.
Suppose a woman received offers from ten men and went on dates with five of them.
Wanting to avoid dating her simply because of that would be an unnecessary bias against what might otherwise be a perfect match.
I’m sorry for going on at such length with this rather presumptuous opinion.
The real reason, as Aizawa mentioned, is that I don’t want to get in the way of a woman who wants to say, “This is my first time.”
In reality, she’s heading to the date feeling even more nervous than she would on her first date.
Rather than seeing invisible other papas as the enemy, why not focus on factors within your control—dealing with body odor, maintaining a clean and well-groomed appearance, being smooth and considerate, and creating a fun atmosphere and date plan?
If you have another reason for wanting information about the number of arrangements, I’d appreciate it if you could submit a separate question.
