One of the papas I’ve been seeing just broke things off with me. I’m sad—sob.
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But I’ve already gotten a few offers, so I decided to just move on and think, “Oh well!”
How do you all deal with it when a papa breaks up with you??
Do you try reaching out to him again after a few months?
Or do you just say, “Next! Next!” and move on?
It’s Jo.
I get rejected a lot. I’ve always struggled with how I should react when it happens. Apparently, the correct answer is “pien.” Thanks for teaching me—I’m definitely going to use it!
From here on, this is just Jo’s very personal opinion.
First of all, I think it’s utterly foolish to reflect on yourself and wallow in regret just because someone rejected you. I’ve never met a genuinely good person who’s constantly reflecting on their mistakes. That said, I’m basically pretty small-time myself, so I’m often tempted to start overthinking things—but I think I’ve managed to hold myself back.
That doesn’t mean I recommend simply pretending you don’t care, either. Why? Because it isn’t beautiful. So what should you do?!
Start with “pien.” And if it were me right now, I’d probably go diving at Sunabe with Osamu. Watching sea anemones breathe is literally breathtakingly beautiful. Seriously!
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
In my case, I’ve never been the one to initiate a breakup, nor has anyone ever broken up with me. If someone did end things with me, I’d probably ask, “Why?” But I wouldn’t press them for details—I’d move on.
Wait—moving on again? How long are you going to keep doing that?
I’m an old man and things are tough, but I’ll start looking for someone anyway...
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I’m Rin.
Pien……
I wonder if your papa got tired.
You should cherish the papa who continues to support you and finds it absolutely adorable that you use “pien” so naturally.
My daughter says she stopped using “pien” ages ago, but I didn’t realize people were still using it these days.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
If you’ve received several offers, I don’t think you need to feel discouraged.
That said, you should think about why you were turned down and what you can do to improve.
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I’m Kazu, a male member who’s never been the one to initiate a breakup with someone I’m seeing.
I’m curious what it takes to get dumped. If a woman I’m seeing broke up with me, I’d learn from the reason and start considering which women to make offers to by checking my Favorites on the Universe members’ page.
I probably wouldn’t make a move several months later.
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