It’s been about six months since I joined. I received several offers during my first month, but haven’t received a single one since. A staff member asked whether I wanted to have new photos taken, but several of the people I’m still seeing have said they don’t want me to meet anyone else, so I’m unable to actively update my photos or profile comments. In this situation, what can I do to receive new offers?
Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
Please talk to the staff as is and try having the photos taken again. They should be able to explain things like:
“If you do it this way, it should be fine.”
“These are the potential risks.”
Once you hear their explanation, I think you’ll feel more inclined to have the photos retaken.
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I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
The fact that you’ve continued seeing several women you met during your first month for six months suggests that the timing, compatibility, and personalities all worked out well.
I think it would be a good idea to consider how valuable and special these connections are. As your relationships deepen, they may develop into the kind of arrangement you’re hoping for.
If you start seeking something new, though, I feel these relationships may remain at their current level, eventually become boring, and come to an end. From a man’s perspective, it’s also nice to feel that someone is relying on you.
You should also take into account that women at the club may naturally leave after six months and be replaced if they aren’t receiving many offers.
For many women, offers are won or lost within the first three days or three weeks. So the fact that you’ve managed to turn that initial period into ongoing relationships shows that you’re an attractive person, and I feel that’s both ideal and quite valuable.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Here we go again with the possessiveness, haha.
You really shouldn’t listen to someone who says, “Don’t see anyone but me.” Is he giving you the allowance that ten men would?
“Things will be tough if your papa-katsu allowance decreases, right? Then you should continue seeing only me.” That’s probably what he’s thinking. It’s an incredibly underhanded way of taking advantage of someone’s vulnerability.
You currently have several men you’re continuing arrangements with. That means you have that much appeal.
Even without relying on your current papas, I’m sure you could easily find new ones. Don’t worry about what this man says—have your photos and videos reshot.
If the new photos or videos make me think, “Oh!” please let me send you an offer, haha.
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Imai, Chief of the Tokyo Main Office, here.
Here’s a workaround: you can have your profile hidden from men you’ve already dated by telling the club that you’re taking a temporary leave or withdrawing.
Simply let the staff know which gentlemen you want to hide your profile from, and they can arrange it.
However, there is still a possibility that you could be found out—for example, if a friend of one of the men in question is also registered with the club. This option is therefore available only with a full understanding of that risk.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Telling you not to see anyone else besides him is incredibly narrow-minded. If he satisfied his partner in every way, you’d naturally choose to see only him（笑）
I think it would be best to have those men hidden from your profile, then go ahead and retake your photos and update your comments as much as you like.
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