I’m Gaku, a male member. This year, I made an offer and have been seeing a beautiful woman I’ve gradually gotten close to. She asked me, “May I wash your hair?”
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I’m asked this fairly often by women I’ve gotten close to—by about half of the women I’ve met three or more times.
I’m not completely bald, but I have short, thinning hair rather than a full head of hair. I do wash it properly and try to maintain a clean, well-groomed appearance, so I don’t think it’s because I smell or anything. Why do they wash my hair for me?
The women who do it are usually the devoted, take-care-of-you type, so I feel like I’m being looked after, and I let them wash my whole body as well.
Have any of the men here had their hair washed by a woman? And women, have you ever felt like doing something like that?
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
At first, I thought you meant the woman washing her own hair, but you mean washing Gaku’s hair, right? I’ve never been asked that. Once we get close, we sometimes wash each other as part of our intimate time in the bathroom, but having a woman wash my body makes me feel like I’m being cared for as an elderly person.
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I’m Gaku, a male member.
After reading everyone’s answers, I’ve started wondering if I actually smell pretty bad.
The girls usually wash me when we take a bath together after we’re intimate, but the girl I’ve had the longest monthly arrangement with washes me regardless of whether it’s before or after.
I’ll ask the girls I’m seeing regularly.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Is that before or after the “play”?
If it’s before, there may be something she’s concerned about and wants to wash off.
My long-term girlfriend shaves her legs in the bathroom every time we meet. In winter, if she didn’t shower the day before, she’ll sometimes ask, “Can I wash my hair?” and wash it herself.
I’d rather she didn’t, if possible, but it’s not enough to refuse her outright… She’s never asked me to wash my hair, so I wonder what the difference is.
By the way, when therapists at men’s esthetic salons perform a décolleté treatment, they sit near the man’s head. Apparently, they often find it unbearable because of the smell.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
Thank you for your question.
When she says, “May I wash your hair?” could she perhaps actually mean, “May I wash my own hair?”—and is she only washing yours because you offer your head and she feels obliged to go along with it?
I imagine there are a few women who would like to wash their own hair.
But I’ve never heard of a woman wanting to wash a man’s hair, or of anyone having their hair washed by one.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
A woman who washes your hair for you sounds lovely. No one has offered to do that for me so far.
Maybe it’s because, like Seattle, I keep my hair on the longer side?
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I’m in Seattle.
No one’s ever told me to wash it. My hair is on the longer side.
With short hair, it seems like you could wash it quickly, so maybe it’s about physical affection?
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