Tips Nov 28, 2020 22:22

I’ve been a female member for two years.

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I recently had my first reshoot, but so far I haven’t received any offers. Since I received offers not only when I first joined but also whenever I renewed my membership, I can’t help but feel how much my market value has declined. Would temporarily removing the blur and seeing how things go be one possible approach?
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well. Thank you for your question. > I went in for my first reshoot, but I haven’t received any offers so far. If you had been receiving offers consistently until now, and they suddenly stopped around the time of your reshoot, a few possibilities come to mind: 1. The reshoot photos didn’t turn out well. (Even blurred photos can vary in quality.) 2. During the reshoot, the staff may have decided you weren’t someone they could confidently recommend. (They may have mentioned something in the staff comments.) 3. Something else—for example, you may have happened to receive some negative feedback. If there’s a man you’ve been seeing who you’re fairly close with, it might be worth asking him what things have been like since your reshoot. You can also contact me, Maezawa, through the form below, and I can look into what may be going on. However, I may not be able to give you a completely direct answer like before, so I might only be able to offer some hints. Even so, I think that should help you figure out what steps to take. Contact form: https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/
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I’m Gaku, a male member. I’ve never made an offer to a woman whose face was blurred, but if you’ve continued receiving offers with your face blurred, I think it’s fine to leave it that way. My guess is that men who make offers to women with blurred faces may think, “Can I really trust a woman who’s willing to show her face in such a questionable world?” That may be why they choose women with blurred photos. It’s also possible that the retaken photos just aren’t very flattering. Maybe you could ask them to restore the original photos or have them retaken. You might also try leaving the photos unchanged and updating only your comments, or adding more selfies.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. In a place that facilitates meetings between men and women, new female members keep joining one after another, while men flock to them, leaving the club overflowing with regulars. That’s the ideal situation, which is why women naturally leave after six months if they haven’t received any offers. Even if you remove the blur now, you’re still a longtime member. It may be worth looking for another club—or perhaps a new job. As far as the club is concerned, unless there’s an exceptional offer, you’re probably just being kept around to make up the numbers. Honestly, they may already have little use for you.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. In a previous answer on this anonymous Q&A site, someone said, “You won’t keep receiving offers forever…” I’m not sure whether this is just a coincidence this time or whether that really is the case, but it seems to have turned out that way. The person who said, “You won’t keep receiving offers forever…” emphasized the importance of maintaining ongoing relationships. If you’re continuing to see someone, then even without new offers, it’s essentially the same as receiving offers continuously. So rather than getting too confident, it may be better to pursue relationships with people you can continue seeing. Some people expect substantial financial support through relationships arranged by dating clubs, but while that may be possible in the short term, receiving support over the long term is difficult amid such intense competition. As for: > Would temporarily removing the blur and seeing how things go be one possible approach? I think that’s a good idea too. Try different things, and enjoy your dating-club experience along the way.
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