Tips Nov 25, 2020 15:53

A man told me that even if we went to a hotel, he’d be happy just having me sit beside him. Does that really happen? (With an allowance.)

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I can’t help wondering whether he really wants to have sex but is only saying that because he feels awkward bringing it up—and whether he’ll try something once we’re actually in the room… For reference, I’ve already told him that I’m okay with an adult relationship (intimate).
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Maki from our Tokyo team would like to answer as well. I’ve never been able to tell a girl, “It’s enough just to have you by my side.” (I’m always trying way too hard, haha.) Maybe that’s the composure of a mature man.
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It’s Joe. If you’re asking whether I have the stamina or not, the answer is an easy yes. For example, I had an overnight stay with Ms. Jasmine starting yesterday, but after all sorts of twists and turns, I ended up waving goodbye without firing anything off. We had breakfast together, so for Joe, it practically counts as having done the deed. I’m completely satisfied. Thanks as always! Though it’s a secret that I met Rina-chan before seeing Ms. Jasmine and got things taken care of. Sorry.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I don’t think it would be strange if that were the case. Sometimes I wonder whether things like the “kinks” Mac mentions from time to time, or one’s physical condition in old age, might play a role too. There’s no denying that having someone sleep beside you makes them twice as adorable(笑). And as a result, you might even feel up to giving it your best…? I think it’s best to approach it with an open-minded attitude.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Thanks for your question. When dealing with a woman who doesn’t seem likely to agree, some men use the classic lie: “I won’t do anything.” But since you’re okay with an adult relationship (intimate), I think there are also men who say things like, “It’s enough if you’ll take a bath with me,” or “All I want is to see you naked”—in other words, they don’t need to go all the way.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. I hear stories like that pretty often. Men have all kinds of circumstances too (笑). I’ve heard a few stories about elderly men who can’t manage an intimate relationship anymore, and the woman simply listens to them while they have a drink—and gets some spending money in return. She said he did grope her breasts, though (笑). There are also men who want advice about their relationships with women, or who feel lonely and want someone to sleep beside them. If you’re going to accept an allowance, it may be best to be prepared for the possibility that it could turn into an adult relationship (intimate). That way, if your papa (a male supporter) gets excited and suddenly says, “Maybe we should give it a try,” you won’t panic.
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