I’m registered as Type C.
Since I receive very few offers, I mainly use apps. On apps, my approach is more like a Type B leaning toward Type A, in club terms.
I’ve been told by some men I’ve met that I’m attractive, but more often I receive compliments—or comments?—that I’m interesting, unusual, their first experience with someone like me, and that they’d like to talk more.
I’ve met them on the understanding that we might move toward an adult relationship (intimate) if we became close, but with most of them, I end up being invited out repeatedly for meals only (no intimacy), like a dinner companion.
Since I didn’t enter this world specifically because I wanted an adult relationship (intimate), I’m grateful for how things have worked out.
So I’ve started wondering whether I receive so few offers because I’m registered as Type C. The men who make offers to Type C women and those who make offers to Type B women probably differ somewhat, so perhaps it would be okay for me to switch to Type B.
However, there was a period when I switched to Type B once because I was unwell. If I change again, I worry that having changed types so frequently might leave a bad impression on the club and its male members.
What do you think in practice?
I’d appreciate any impressions or opinions from the club or male members, as well as any thoughts or advice from female members.
I’m a male member named Fulleren!
The fact that you’re asking this question in the first place is probably part of your appeal, so why not put it in your profile exactly as it is?
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Maki from the Tokyo staff would also like to answer.
Personally, I don’t feel there’s that much difference between Type B and Type C offers.
(Please be honest about your feelings and be sure to choose the type that suits you best.)
The fact is that there are about twice as many female members as male members, so it can be difficult to receive an offer. Nearly half of the women still have zero offers after six months.
I recommend waiting patiently for an offer and cherishing the connections you do receive by making the most of your dates!
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
This is just my personal interpretation:
Changing from Type C to Type B: “Maybe she had a bad experience in a relationship.”
Changing from Type B to Type C: “Maybe she’s been getting fewer offers.”
It sounds like receiving fewer offers is what prompted your question, but I don’t think the number of offers is necessarily related to your relationship type.
Even if someone is Type C, if her profile doesn’t say much about adult relationships, I may wonder whether she’s “pretend C” and hesitate to make an offer. With Type C women, I do expect an adult relationship from the first date.
The relationship type is important when considering an offer, but I make my decision based on the overall impression from the photos, video, private photos, and comments from the woman and the club. I think it would be a good idea to consult with the staff at your branch and revise your profile.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
As you said, changing your relationship type repeatedly can give men a negative impression.
However, it’s not a good idea to stick with a relationship type that doesn’t reflect your true feelings, so I think you should choose the one that best matches how you really feel.
That said, what concerns me is that it sounds as though you may be choosing your relationship type mainly because you want to receive offers.
What I’d like you to think about is which relationship type genuinely suits you.
By the way, it might be a good idea to log in to the members’ page and explain why you changed your relationship type in your comment section.
However, writing something like “because I thought I’d get more offers” could work against you, so please be careful.
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