When making an offer, I assume men look at a woman’s profile video. Have you ever decided not to make an offer after seeing her moving and talking, even if her photos looked good?
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I panicked during a video shoot the other day and couldn’t speak well, so I ended up saying things that were hard to follow. 😭
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Yes, I do. A person’s voice matters quite a bit to me, so I place a lot of importance on videos. But I’m only listening to your voice, so it’s totally fine if you get flustered! If anything, I might find it cute because your natural self comes through(^^)
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Maezawa from the president’s office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
> Have you ever decided not to make an offer after seeing a video of someone moving and talking, even if they looked good in photos?
I’m sure that happens.
However, it’s not necessarily a dealbreaker just because someone gets flustered, has trouble speaking smoothly, or isn’t quite sure what they’re saying.
If anything, I think they’re checking things like how she speaks, what her voice is like, and her mannerisms.
So I don’t think you need to worry about it too much.
I’m sure it feels like a big concern to her, but there are also men who find a woman’s nervousness endearing.
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I’m in my 60s and still trying to find my way.
What someone talks about is only a reference point, but I do wonder what their voice is like, so I may place some importance on that…
It’s fun imagining what their voice might sound like in those moments… lol
That said, if their profile catches your interest first, their voice is secondary, so it’s probably best not to worry about it too much.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I haven’t made any offers recently, and I don’t have many examples to share, but…
I watch the videos to get a sense of the woman’s overall impression when I’m considering making an offer, comparing them with her photos. I don’t pay much attention to what she says. Even if she seems flustered, I just assume she’s nervous—that’s about it.
I meet her in person, talk with her, and make my own assessment before deciding whether to take things further.
Once a relationship starts, it tends to continue for quite a while in my case, so it feels a bit like a job interview—but that’s how I’ve always approached it.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
There have been times when I passed on making an offer because someone’s video wasn’t as good as her photos. Conversely, I’ve also made an offer when her photos weren’t great but her video was.
Whether it’s photos or video, looking perfectly polished doesn’t necessarily mean it’s better. As you mentioned, even if someone doesn’t speak very well, some viewers may find that nervousness cute.
If someone answers everything perfectly in a video, I sometimes end up thinking, “She seems pretty experienced.”
If I had to choose, personally, I prefer someone whose nervousness comes through.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
When I first joined, I used to watch the videos, too. But I realized that you can’t know whether you click with someone until you actually meet, so for the past few months, I’ve mostly been making offers without watching them. No matter how beautiful she is, if I don’t like her personality, I wouldn’t want to continue seeing her.
I don’t think I’ve ever decided not to make an offer because of a video. Even if she looked nervous or flustered, I’d probably just think she was cute.
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