I love everything about him, including his personality and our intimate relationship, but is it okay for me to tell him how I feel?
I’m afraid he might be put off or start disliking me if I tell him I like him, so I’ve never been able to say it myself.
To be honest, even when I’m with my boyfriend, there are times when I find myself thinking about my papa—and sometimes I think about him more than I think about my boyfriend.
My papa is also better at intimacy, so I find myself thinking about him even when I’m with my boyfriend. I’m even considering breaking up with my boyfriend because I feel it’s unfair to him. (I’m not saying I’d break up with him to be with my papa.)
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Putting myself in your position, I have very mixed feelings about this.
I’m married, but I’m honestly happy when a woman tells me she has feelings for me. That said, I already treat the women I’m seeing with as much affection as I can give, so I can’t promise I’d be able to give them any more just because they’ve expressed their feelings.
I also want everyone I’m seeing to be happy, so I hope they’ll continue to get along with their boyfriends. I don’t want to become the reason they break up.
In conclusion, I think it may be more comfortable for both of you to continue seeing each other as you are now.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thanks for your question.
> Is this the kind of “like” that I can tell him about?
I think it’s perfectly fine to tell him.
> He’s also better at intimacy than my boyfriend.
I think he’d be happy to hear that, too.
> I’m even considering breaking up with my boyfriend because I feel bad for him.
It might be better to break up for a different reason—or at least have him be the one to break things off. Depending on how you phrase it, this could come across as a bit much.
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I’m in Seattle.
If you told me while making it clear that you want to keep things as they are, I’d be happy to hear it.
I’d treat you even better, and your allowance might increase.
If he’s married, I’d phrase it a little more subtly.
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