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Nov 19, 2020 09:04
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Meg
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Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
As the male respondents have said, I think it depends on the person you’re seeing.
That said, there’s one other thing that concerns me.
Do you perhaps feel, even just a little, as though this activity is more like a job—or even an obligation?
You don’t seem to be enjoying it somehow…
Sorry if I’m mistaken.
Maybe you feel that way because you’re seeing several papa (male supporters)?
That’s an unfamiliar world to me, so I can’t really say.
But one thing I can say is this:
If it’s sex you genuinely enjoy, you’ll never feel like you’re not in the mood!
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Are you a woman, by any chance? Either way, I think the issue lies with your partner. Perhaps they aren’t very good at setting the mood. It sounds like there are still many things you haven’t tried yet.
Everyone has different preferences. I’m sure there are pleasures you haven’t experienced yet. Unfortunately, the only way to discover them is to meet someone who can help you realize what you’ve been missing.
Beyond that, I suppose it comes down to how willing you are to explore your sexuality.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from “The President’s Office” here.
Thank you for your question.
If you’re a man and don’t have any sexual desire, I feel like you simply don’t have to date.
For women, though, when a man makes a move, the question of what to do if you don’t feel any desire does seem to come up.
Specifically, I feel that the key is to come to enjoy intimacy itself. And as for how to do that, I think it comes down to meeting the right person.
It’s not easy, though.