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Nov 18, 2020 14:21
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I’ve heard that some women never receive an offer and end up leaving even after six months, so I’m becoming increasingly anxious.
How long did it take for you to receive an offer?
I’m wondering whether I should lose weight and go in for a new photo shoot.
4 answers
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office will answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> I heard that some women never receive an offer even after six months, and eventually leave the club.
Who did you hear that from?
In the past, there were even women who received their first offer after a year, so it wasn’t necessarily the case that they would leave simply because they hadn’t received an offer after six months.
Some branches may be stricter, though, and perhaps that is the policy at certain locations.
> I’m wondering whether I should lose weight and go in for a reshoot.
If you only registered four days ago, it’s far too soon to consider a reshoot.
That said, if your weight concerns you, it might be a good idea to start dieting so you’ll be ready when an offer comes in, or to prepare for a reshoot a few months from now.
You could also start by checking whether your profile comments seem strange from a man’s perspective and try revising them.
For now, please wait one month.
If you don’t receive even a single offer during that first month, it’s possible that you simply weren’t a match for the preferences of many men. From there, it may be worth thinking about what you can do to receive an offer within the next six months.
Other
Universe Club Tokyo
I’m Aizawa, the Assistant Chief, and I’ll answer your question as well.
It’s actually very rare for someone to receive an offer immediately after registering!!
If you compare yourself to that small handful of women and start wondering why you haven’t received one, then 90% of our female members would end up worrying unnecessarily, so I think it’s best not to let it bother you.
Some women receive a flood of offers but ultimately don’t continue with any of the men, while others receive only one offer but continue seeing that person for a long time.
Please think of this as a period to prepare thoroughly so you won’t miss your chance when an offer does come.
If you still don’t receive an offer after some time, try talking to the staff at your branch. We can work together to consider options such as taking new photos or posting selfies.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Welcome aboard! (lol)
There’s no point worrying when you’ve only just signed up. First, you’re afraid no offers will come. Then, when one does, you feel relieved. But that relief is short-lived, because you start worrying about whether he’ll want to continue seeing you.
Thoughts are connected. Anxious thoughts create more anxiety, while happy thoughts lead to more happiness.
For now, don’t worry about an uncertain future. Just look forward to receiving an offer from a wonderful man.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you’ve only been registered for a few days, there’s no point worrying about having your photos retaken yet.
Reading this may only make you anxious, but someone previously asked how long it took to receive their first offer after registering, so take a look here:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4904