There’s something I’d like to ask the women here.
This may sound unusual, but I have little interest in penetration during sex, and I’m completely satisfied with foreplay alone.
Would women generally find that undesirable?
If it were acceptable, I’d prefer to have penetrative sex only about once every three times we meet. However, I worry that this might be rude, so I’ve been pushing myself to go through with penetration every time, and it’s becoming a psychological burden.
I’m not even sure whether it’s appropriate to discuss something like this with female members in the first place.
I would appreciate any advice.
I’m Meg, a female member.
I’m sorry to hear that it’s become such a psychological burden for you.
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If it’s weighing on you that much, I wonder whether you can really enjoy sex either. It may take some courage, but I recommend talking it over with the woman you’re seeing.
She might even say, “You’re an ideal supporter for being satisfied with foreplay alone!”
By the way, my papa (a male supporter) doesn’t seem to be very interested in ejaculation either. I’ve always found it puzzling, but after reading the opinions from the male respondents, I somehow feel reassured.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
I think it depends on whether the woman enjoys intimacy as well. Still, if she understands that the man is that kind of person, she probably won’t be too concerned about it.
That said, if by something like foreplay you mean F, doing that for more than 30 minutes sounds pretty demanding. What do you think?
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I’m a lost soul in my 60s.
I’m in my mid-60s and still energetic enough to masturbate almost every day and keep going physically (like a high schooler... lol), though lately I’ve noticed that I’m producing less semen.
So while I still enjoy penetration, I’m not as hung up on ejaculating as I used to be. I actually like focusing on helping my partner enjoy herself through foreplay.
It’s reassuring to know I’m not the only one. Maybe I’ll be able to honestly tell a woman, “You’re not the only one...” lol.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I understand how you feel. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve also found myself more interested in foreplay than penetration. Once things continue for a while, the woman I’m seeing sometimes picks up on it, but I feel like it’s okay to bring it up myself too.
I’m curious to see how the women here respond.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not particularly interested in penetration or ejaculation either. Sounds like we have that in common.
When a woman seems to feel bad if we don’t have penetration and I don’t finish, I explain my preferences to her. But from her perspective, it doesn’t seem to be a preference she can really relate to. I always get the impression that she’s not entirely convinced.
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