Are those of you answering the more serious, genuinely-in-love type?

I’m Tetsu, a male member. By your standards, I guess I’d be the genuinely-in-love type (lol). I’m intimate with my partner because I find her truly dear to me, and I sometimes get jealous when I hear about other papas. On the other hand, I wonder what jealousy is supposed to accomplish. It won’t change the situation at all—it’ll only wear you down emotionally. If you don’t want her talking about other women in front of you, all you have to do is tell her you don’t like it. If she’s the kind of person who will respect that, you’ll trust each other more and be able to build a better relationship. And if it causes the relationship to end, just consider that he was only capable of a relationship of that depth. There are countless men out there. Rather than fixating on one serious attachment, wouldn’t it be more fun to fall seriously for two or three people?

I’m Fullerene, a male member! What exactly is “falling seriously in love,” anyway? When I was younger, it meant, “I only need this one person—I don’t need anyone else.” But now, it feels like my heart has grown several compartments. I love each of them dearly, but it’s not as though any one person completely fills my heart. There are plenty of other things to think about besides my feelings for women, after all.

I’m Gaku, a male member of a dating club. When I first started, I think I got carried away and was pretty serious about it. Even now, I can’t keep seeing someone unless I develop feelings for her, but I don’t fall genuinely in love. I think middle-aged and older men are happy when a woman develops feelings for them through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).