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Nov 17, 2020 03:12
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I'm hoping to meet someone for more than just dinner—someone open to an adult relationship (intimate). However, I've had sensitive skin and atopic dermatitis since birth, so I have quite a few scars on my body that haven't completely healed. I'm receiving treatment, and there aren't any scars you can feel by touch, but they are still visible.
Even in this situation, is it possible that someone might still make me an offer?
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間宮(銀座スタッフ)
Female
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12年目のお局様👄クールビューティーに見えて中身はチャランポランです♪
Age: 30s
👩 Female
Universe staff
Universe Tokyo’s Mamiya here.
When conducting interviews, we can usually tell to some extent if someone has atopic skin just by looking. If we notice it during the interview, we may ask about it. Whether the answer is honest or not is up to you, but our staff will write candidly about their impressions in the comments.
There was one case where a man informed a woman about it, which hurt her deeply and led to a complaint. However, I believe it’s something that shouldn’t be kept hidden.
Having atopic dermatitis will not result in rejection, but if there are any side effects or precautions we need to be aware of, please be sure to tell the interviewer and register with us.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here.
Thanks for your question.
Women with atopic dermatitis can still receive offers.
Whether you get an offer depends on whether a man looks at your photos and wants to meet you. So as long as you’re someone he’d like to meet and the atopic dermatitis isn’t visible on your face, you should still receive offers.
That said, I do think you should disclose it. However, even if you don’t, a man may meet you, like your personality, and decide that his positive impression of you outweighs a minor case of atopic dermatitis. In that case, it effectively cancels it out, and there won’t be any complaints to the club.
On the other hand, when a man isn’t particularly impressed, he may start nitpicking and making all kinds of complaints.
So, if nearly every man you’ve met has ended up liking you once you met in person, you may be fine without disclosing it.
But if that’s not the case, you should disclose it properly, or you may end up dealing with complaints later, which can be difficult.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think you should mention it during the interview, as you did in your question. Men don’t decide whether to make an offer based solely on someone’s skin. If you have qualities that make them want to meet you, I think you’ll still receive offers.
I can’t say for sure whether you’ll actually receive an offer, since I’m just one male member, but there are women with atopic dermatitis who are registered as well. The fact that they’re accepted for registration suggests the staff believe they’re likely to receive offers.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Women’s profiles mention things like whether they have tattoos, scars, or surgical marks. I take those details into consideration when deciding whether to make an offer, so there’s no need to worry.