I received an offer, though I’m not sure whether the staff recommended me or the man requested me himself! Could the staff recommend and introduce another woman to the same man a few months later?

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Thank you for your question. > Is it possible that the staff might recommend and introduce another woman to that man a few months later? Whenever a great woman joins, we actively introduce her to our male members. However, if things are going well with you and he tells us that he doesn’t need introductions to any other women, then we’ll stop making them. So I feel your goals should be one of these: 1. Make him like you so much that he feels he doesn’t need to meet anyone else. 2. Build a relationship where, even if he meets other women, he still wants to continue seeing you. Even if he’s introduced to other women, think carefully about how you can maintain your relationship with him just as it is. Being introduced means the staff thought you were a wonderful woman. Keep striving to become an even better one, so the staff never feels they made the wrong call.

I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member. Of the women I’m currently seeing, I feel that a few of them will remain in my life no matter how many other women I’m introduced to or make offers to. I don’t think I’ll change my mind about them, and I expect we’ll have a relationship that lasts for many years.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Rather than worrying pessimistically about what you’ll do if things end with the man you’re currently seeing, I think you should focus more positively on getting your next offer. With every new encounter comes a goodbye. Keep doing your best.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I think the men the club recommends women to are those who have made a fair number of offers and have left a strong impression on the staff. So male members who receive recommendations probably get them several times a month, not just once every few months. I think women you already have an ongoing arrangement with have an advantage, since you know what’s good about them and have developed feelings for them. If you’re a good papa (a male supporter), I’d recommend making a strong start—within reason—and getting the questioner to become attached to you as soon as possible. This month alone, the staff have recommended 12 women to me. The reason I decided to make an offer to the woman I see most often was also because the staff recommended her to me. She knows I make quite a lot of offers, but she says, “I don’t think there are many women who would be a match like me. And even if someone comes along that Kazu gets hooked on, it would be for a different reason than with me, so I’m not worried about being discarded. If anything, I’m proud to have been chosen from among the incredible number of women he’s met.”