Tips Nov 12, 2020 13:48

I’m a Type C female member.

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This is more of a request for opinions than a question… I had my first date today, and… we went straight to an internet café as soon as we met, then things got intimate right away. After that, we left the café, and he bought me the bag I wanted (about ¥6,000). Then we went our separate ways, and I received ¥20,000 as an allowance. What do you think of a date like this? I haven’t met that many people, so I’m not sure, but this felt different from the people I’ve met before, so I decided to post and ask for your opinions.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. > A net café right after meeting for the first time That’s definitely a gray area, right on the edge of violating the rules. Since you can eat at a net café too, if he claims he chose it as a place to have a meal, it becomes difficult to challenge him. But personally, I would say, “Even so, that violates the club’s rules on gentlemanly conduct.” First, please be sure to send proper feedback to the club. The club probably doesn’t even know that there are men who take someone straight to a net café, so it’s important for them to learn what kind of person he is through your feedback. Also, if he was using the net café as a substitute for a hotel, then it’s essentially the same as taking you straight to a hotel room. He can’t use the excuse that he chose it as a place to eat. That is a clear violation of the rules. If you’re taken to a net café, please firmly refuse before going inside by saying, “I don’t want to go to a net café.” If you end things there, send your feedback immediately. If the man lies and complains that the arrangement couldn’t be completed because you went home right away, the club may misunderstand the situation and blame you. If you send your feedback promptly, the parts he deliberately left out will also come to light, and it will become clear that he was at fault.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. An internet café for a first date? No way. Sorry, but you’re a male member too, aren’t you? I really wonder what he was thinking… If it were me, I’d definitely give the club some feedback.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Seattle. This is the Universe Club Q&A forum, not some sketchy app. lol Well, if everything’s over in about 30 minutes, it might be a pretty easy way to make decent money by the hour.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
This is Joe. From the way you’ve written your question, it already seems clear that you’re not comfortable with the situation yourself. In my opinion, regardless of the amount of the allowance, it’s hard to believe that he took you to an Internet café—and then expected intimacy there. It sounds like he’s simply trying to save money on a hotel. There may be various circumstances, but I’d recommend having a little more pride in yourself.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. That’s a type of date I’ve never been on before. I’m interested in having sex at an internet café, but if I were going to do it, I’d ask someone I’m already comfortable with to go along with me. Still, she squirts a lot and has a pretty loud moan, so I don’t think we’d be able to enjoy ourselves at an internet café. I wonder if that man was looking for quick, no-strings-attached sex. It seems like he’d be better off looking for someone through a dating app rather than a dating club. If he pulled something that reckless and the woman reported him to the club in her feedback, it could end up being noted on my page in the staff’s shared records. Personally, I’d never go to an internet café on a first date. By the way, did you agree to an allowance of 20,000 yen? And did you receive the transportation money?
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