What percentage of women from dating clubs have experience in the sex industry or nightlife businesses?
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I once saw something like this written in an anonymous Q&A box, and it made me wonder about the women I’m seeing. Recently, I happened to find one of them listed on a certain adult-services website.
Are there really a lot of dating-club women who currently work—or have previously worked—in the sex industry or nightlife businesses?
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
Universe and other dating clubs also recruit women through regular listings on adult entertainment job sites.
A lot of women have experience in the nightlife industry, but people’s comfort levels with dating clubs, adult entertainment, and nightlife work vary considerably. So I feel the difference may simply be that they happened to choose the option they felt least resistance toward.
Relationships can continue regardless of where you meet someone, so I don’t think one is necessarily better than another.
I believe both men and women have their own preferences and places that suit them.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I don’t think I’ve had that many experiences either.
Unlike Mac, I’m also a timid, poor guy, so I’ve lived my life pretty much the way my mother taught me: that women are scary. (That’s only partly true.)
I was too scared to even talk to pretty female classmates, so I’ve been to health salons and soaplands, as well as hostess clubs and lounges.
Even the women in the adult entertainment industry were very kind and treated me well. I think I was just over 20 when a soapland worker gave me a handjob and I ended up ejaculating all the way onto the calendar hanging on the wall.
I was incredibly embarrassed, but she just smiled and laughed, saying, “You’re a first-timer, aren’t you?”
Those women were generally like that, though there were a very small number who clearly had “a slightly different outlook from mine.”
Given the current situation with COVID, I’m sure some people from the adult entertainment industry have also joined Universe, the dating club.
That said, I judge them based on whether they would actually be a good match for me personally.
Looking at things from that perspective, there are some women I might be happy to date.（笑）
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
I don’t think there’s any point in worrying about something like that. I don’t know how many women you’ve offered arrangements to, but isn’t this simply a case of one of them happening to appear on an adult services website?
And since you were seeing her, I assume you liked her. If you liked her, then what she normally does shouldn’t matter.
If you’re saying you wouldn’t have dated her had you known, then you should think carefully about why that is.
If you really liked her, I don’t think something like that would bother you this much.
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I’m in Seattle.
Women who work in the adult entertainment industry are ordinary girls, too.
Before I joined Universe Club—about eight years ago—I used to visit those establishments and ended up in a relationship with one of the women I’d pursued.
I saw her yesterday. She’s now a nurse and a close friend of mine.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m curious what you intend to do with that information, but while they may not be very common, I believe there are still a fair number of them. I’d estimate around 10–20%. Some list their occupation as “night companion,” and some women I’ve actually offered have told me they have experience in the adult entertainment or nightlife industries.
Before COVID, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) paid less than those kinds of jobs, so I don’t think many women from the nightlife or adult entertainment industries did papa-katsu. Since COVID, though, both nightlife businesses and adult entertainment venues have seen fewer customers than before, so it seems more women are leaving those jobs and moving into papa-katsu.
That said, I honestly don’t understand why it would be a problem if someone you’re dating has experience in the adult entertainment or nightlife industries. Is being inexperienced supposed to be a good thing?
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I wouldn’t be surprised if around 20–30% of women at the club either openly disclose it or keep it hidden. That said, I think more than half of them have only tried it briefly, more as a casual experience.
The adult entertainment industry is tough these days, and the potential returns don’t really justify the risks. So I don’t think many women are willing to deliberately step into that world.
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