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He isn’t a man from the club, but I had sex with a guy who’s ten years younger than me, submissive, and likes older women.
He said he’d never been able to climax from oral sex before, but I managed to make him climax once with a handjob while stimulating his nipples, once through oral sex while stimulating his anus, and once with me on top—for a total of three times.
I’ve always been attracted to older men myself, so this was my first time being intimate with a younger man. Age doesn’t really matter, but seeing a man look and sound like he’s feeling good really turns me on and gets me very wet.
Am I sadistic?
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
It’s possible that she had only ever been with women around her own age and therefore had very little experience with that particular technique.
Compared with her, you had a fair amount of experience, so perhaps you were able to handle her skillfully.
There may be something satisfying about using your technique to bring someone with little experience to the point of climax.
Come to think of it, there seem to be women on dating sites who look for virgins, so everyone has their own preferences.
As for this particular story, I don’t think there’s enough information to tell whether either of you is more S or M.
P.S. Joe would like to make an offer for confirmation, so please contact Maezawa through the inquiry form:
https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you see giving oral sex as serving your partner, then feeling satisfied by their pleasure might mean you’re an M. Conversely, if you see it as taking control, then finding satisfaction in controlling your partner’s body might mean you’re an S.
S and M refer to sadism and masochism—sexual gratification from inflicting or receiving pain—which is a different dimension from simply preferring to take the lead or be submissive.
I think it’s a mistake to force someone who is neither sadistic nor masochistic into the S-or-M framework.
If “while stimulating the anus” means stretching a man’s anus, inserting a vibrator, or giving him an enema and making him endure it, then I think it would be fair to say that you’re an S.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’ve always been curious about being a total masochist, but in the end, I don’t really belong to either the sadist or masochist camp—I’m unaffiliated. Still, depending on the person, I’ve been told, “You’re such an S,” or “You’re such an M.” I don’t really like that.
When someone tells me I’m an S, I feel pressured to act more dominant, and when they tell me I’m an M, I feel like I have to act more submissive ^^
Can’t it just be that I happened to enjoy certain things? Do I really have to decide whether I’m an S or an M? Lol
I guess whether someone is a total sadist ultimately comes down to whether they can handle someone who’s even more of a masochist, doesn’t it?
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