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How can you tell whether you’re more dominant or submissive? I’m not really sure about myself. Maybe I’m simply not very passionate, or perhaps I could go either way. Still, I’d like to know which one I am. How did you figure yourselves out? Thanks in advance.

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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. Thank you for your question. Do you want to take the dominant role, or do you want to be dominated? If neither applies, you’re probably neither a sadist nor a masochist.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. Is it really important to determine whether you’re more dominant or submissive? I think what matters is exploring what kind of intimacy feels good to you and what kind allows you to truly let yourself go. Perhaps identifying as dominant or submissive is simply the result of that process.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s best to try different things and find what you enjoy. People’s preferences aren’t simple enough to be described by just two categories, S and M.
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I’m Meg, a female member. Ah, I totally understand how you feel! At first, I also wondered which category I fell into. I only figured it out after my partner explained it to me.
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