I have a papa (a male supporter) who likes applying oil to my body and massaging me, and the massage alone takes over an hour. It feels so good that I start wanting him to go further, but I’m blindfolded and can’t check whether he’s put on a condom. I mentioned it before we started the second time, but I get so out of it that I can’t check, especially because I never know when he might go further, given the way he touches me… I don’t want him to stop the massages, so I’d like to continue seeing him, but I’m worried because of the risk of infections and so on.
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What can I do to check and still enjoy myself?
Please help.
Universe Tokyo’s Mamiya here.
Given the situation, they probably aren’t actually wearing it.
If you tell them to take off the blindfold, it might kill the mood, so you could try steering things in another direction by adding a different request, like asking them to tie your hands or saying you want to watch them. Personally, I’d also worry that I might be filmed without my knowledge.
You could shift it slightly so you can still see the other person while keeping the blindfold on.
That said, if they’re already out of it, they may not be able to make sound judgments regardless of whether a blindfold is involved.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
I’m afraid I agree with Mac, but I think it would be best to get a massage without wearing a blindfold. That said, taking off the blindfold may change how it feels. Even so, I think it might help to trust the man’s abilities and believe that he can make you feel good without covering your eyes.
Another option would be to have him undergo regular partner checkups and show you the results.
Of course, I think it would be best to suggest that you get tested together.
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With a condom, he ejaculates during penetration. Without one, he finishes outside. You can tell when he ejaculates inside, right? Or am I mistaken? ^^;
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