I'd like to ask the men here: Do you have any tips for meeting women from a dating club without your wife finding out?

This is a long story about a messy situation I ran into the other day… I went on a date with a male member. Because we had to coordinate the location beforehand and there were problems with the chat app, the meeting ended up being delayed by an hour. While waiting for me to get to the hotel, he was getting a massage at the shop next door. After we were done, his wife saw us as we were leaving the hotel and walking together, while she was waiting outside the massage parlor. I have no idea why she was waiting there or how long she had been there. Right there on the spot, she aggressively grilled him. He tried to make excuses, but she clearly didn't believe a word of it. Saying she wanted to hear the truth, she questioned me too, and I told her, “He's the kind of person who plays around with women everywhere, and I knew about it.” His wife kept shouting and crying right there on the street. It was beyond anything I could handle, so I left the scene partway through. While we were at the hotel, he told me that, when he was dating his wife, he had also been seeing another woman at the same time. In the end, he married his wife, but she knew about the other woman—and the fact that he was still seeing her. I thought they were a couple with a pretty open-minded attitude toward his womanizing and their relationship, so I never imagined his wife would react like that.