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I’m a male member.

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Would it be possible to show my profile only to women I’m being offered to, then let them decide whether they’d like to meet me or indicate their level of interest after viewing it? I’d like to reduce mismatches from the outset as much as possible... However, I suppose the club wouldn’t want to do that since it might reduce the number of setups...
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I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. > “Make my profile visible only to women I send offers to” This is already possible, as that’s how things currently work. > “After viewing my profile, let them choose whether or not they want to meet me” Regardless of whether their profile is public or private, women can already decline when they receive an offer. > “Would it be possible to show their level of interest?” The relationship type is meant to indicate their level of interest. Is it possible you misunderstood what it means? Someone with Relationship Type B remains Type B even after viewing your profile. Perhaps some overly confident men think, “Once she sees my photo, she’ll become Type C,” but I don’t think people make decisions based solely on someone’s face. In the first place, I’ve hardly ever seen male members register a profile photo of themselves. Have you registered one? For example, if you’re saying: “I’m worried about being turned down because even women classified as Type C are only 50% proactive,” “I’ve already been rejected many times,” then your way of thinking is fundamentally backward. If you want things to be easy without changing yourself, you should send offers to women with Relationship Type D. If you want to improve your chances even with Type C women, you should think about what you can change about yourself to increase your success rate. Could it be the way you approach them? Your appearance? (Maybe your clothes are wrinkled or you don’t look well-groomed.) Is your allowance too low? Do you end up lecturing them? Are you choosing unsuitable restaurants? It might be a good idea to take a careful look at yourself and reassess these things.
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I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member. > Would it be possible to make my profile visible only to women I send offers to, so they can review it and then decide whether they’d like to meet me or indicate their level of interest? I’d like to minimize mismatches from the outset. I think that should be possible. In the profile I make visible only to women I send offers to, I state the terms for accepting my offer. I include wording that I worked out with the branch staff, such as: “If you don’t agree to the details (terms) listed, please decline the offer.” It may depend on the branch, but I think it would be best to discuss the profile details and wording with the branch staff.
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