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Nov 3, 2020 08:26
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What are you supposed to do???
There seem to be plenty of clear-cut answers about women being stood up at the last minute, but not the other way around, so I thought I’d post this (*^^*)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
With Universe Club, there isn’t really any particular penalty if a man cancels at the last minute, is there?
He might suddenly have work come up or unexpectedly feel unwell…
If it were the woman, her rating might go down, and if she canceled on the day, she could even be forced to leave the club. You might feel that this difference is rather unfair, but for now, that’s simply how things are.
Since the man pays the setting fee, it’s somewhat unavoidable to a certain extent. Still, I do think there should be a penalty for same-day cancellations. I imagine some other dating clubs charge cancellation fees as well.
Even hotels and travel bookings have cancellation fees, so it might make sense to introduce a system such as a 50% penalty for cancellations one week in advance and 100% for cancellations three days before or on the day itself.
It also seems reasonable to give the woman around 5,000 yen in such cases, since transportation costs when meeting are usually around 5,000–10,000 yen.
That said, some generous men will set the next date right away, making it more of a postponement than a cancellation, and may even give her the allowance for the canceled date when they meet next, saying something like, “This is for last time,” despite not having met then.
When you think about it, even if a man genuinely has to cancel because of work, a kind man may still show proper consideration for the other person.
The question is how many men are actually that considerate.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you report it to the club, they might be able to collect the ¥5,000 transportation fee.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Joe here.
I guess all you can do for now is laugh? It’s still better than them not showing up at the meeting place without contacting you, right?!