Tips Nov 2, 2020 07:51

I just can’t penetrate a girl I’ve recently taken a liking to. Apparently, she can do it with other people. Even lube doesn’t help. I hate to say it myself, but I’m quite thick and long, so I think the size mismatch is causing her pain. So, would having her insert an anal plug into her vagina help stretch it? Any advice would be appreciated.

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I’m Tetsu, a male member. Being too large can be a problem too. The idea that bigger is always better and makes women happier is a male assumption; in reality, as in your case, it probably causes more trouble than anything else. I think the basic approach should be to accept that if it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t fit. Trying to “stretch things out” feels like treating a woman’s body as an object. If that’s how you feel, you should look for a woman who is compatible with you.
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I’m Sakurai from the staff. I don’t think this is simply a matter of “If it’s too tight, just make it wider.” As Seattle said, if she’s someone you truly value, I think it’s fine to go without sex. But if you absolutely want to enjoy the atmosphere of sex, how about using something slim as a substitute for the “son”? There are also plenty of products for men if you want to enjoy yourself too! For women who don’t like anything thick, “SVAKOM Coco” seems to be a good option, especially if you’re aiming for the G-spot. (Sorry, I haven’t used it myself, so I can’t offer any detailed feedback.)
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. Thank you for your question. As Riichi also mentioned, this isn’t a case where the woman herself is troubled and posted here directly. If even using lubricant didn’t help, I think it may be best to give up on that. If you like this person, simply spending time together can be enough. Taking a bath together or just cuddling in bed could be enjoyable too. P.S. I thought there was a novel called *My Husband’s Penis Won’t Fit*—and maybe a manga as well… Turns out there is a manga version too. Searching for it, I also found that it was made into a TV drama. https://www.fujitv.co.jp/fujitv/news/pub_2019/190206-s006.html https://magazine.yanmaga.jp/c/och/
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I’m in Seattle. For me too, about one in three doesn’t work out. I’ve stopped trying to force it and keep things dinner only with people I enjoy talking to. If someone isn’t a good fit, I think they’ll stay that way no matter what you do.
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