I’m a female member. Thank you in advance.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I’m not comfortable with having an adult relationship (intimate) during a woman’s period. This is just my personal opinion, but the smell during sex can be a turnoff for me. That said, I sometimes do have an adult relationship (intimate) even when she’s on her period. You can still enjoy touching, oral, and other forms of affection without penetration. If she says she doesn’t want to do anything during her period, then I won’t. If she says it’s okay, then we can simply enjoy ourselves accordingly. Since this is something for the two of you to decide, I think it’s best to discuss it with your partner beforehand and decide what to do. I don’t think any man would be offended by having this conversation in advance.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. Some women don’t mind having an adult relationship while they’re on their period. Generally speaking, I think they’re in the minority, but in the world of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), there’s an allowance involved, so the desire for the allowance may outweigh their reluctance. That said, men with no experience of this will probably be surprised and uncomfortable at first. If you wait until you’re naked in a hotel and then suddenly tell him, he may initially be disappointed and say, “Why didn’t you tell me earlier? I can’t do this.” However, if you keep asking him and he wants to receive his allowance as well, he may eventually think, “Well, should I just go along with it?” And over time, he may even decide, “Surprisingly, this is okay” (lol). So, if the man has no experience with this, he may find it unpleasant at first. But once he’s experienced it after you’ve already gotten undressed and told him, there’s a good chance he won’t feel any resistance the next time onward. Of course, he might simply leave, and there’s also a chance he won’t see you again. It’s probably best to consider what kind of person he is. The safest approach would be to tell him everything beforehand.

I’m Kazu, a male member. When I was in my twenties, my girlfriend at the time was also comfortable having sex during the latter part of her period, so we would do it in the bathroom or somewhere similar. These days, I’ve learned to wait, so I don’t feel the need to go that far. I don’t find it unpleasant if a woman is willing to have sex during her period, but everyone has different preferences, so I’d appreciate it if you could let me know your requests—such as “in the bathroom,” “with a bath towel laid down,” or “no manual stimulation.” These days, if I hear that her period is due, I’d reschedule the date.

I’m Gaku, a male member. I think it’s probably a small percentage. But my monthly arrangement partner is also willing to have an adult relationship with me. The first time, she hadn’t told me anything about her period beforehand, and she let me know in the room where we were staying. She said something like, “If it’s not a problem for you, Mr. Gaku, I’m okay.” Since then, she’s started telling me in advance. If a man brings it up, he might turn the woman off, so he can’t exactly ask her to do it. But if you’re already close with your papa (a male supporter), I suppose that after going on a normal date and entering a room together, if you’re both clearly eager, you might just go with it.