I’m a male member who has just started seeing a Type B woman.
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The first time, she stayed with me for roughly four hours, through a second venue, as the club had given us an approximate guideline. But the second time, it was obvious she wanted to leave as soon as dinner was over,
and we didn’t even spend two hours together.
Is that generally what dinner dates are like?
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
> For the first meeting, she stayed with me for about four hours, through the second venue, in line with the general guideline from Universe.
The guideline is two hours for the meal, followed by two hours of a mutually agreed-upon adult relationship with an allowance.
For those four hours, did you properly pay the ¥5,000–¥10,000 transportation fee required under Universe’s rules, plus an allowance agreed upon by the two of you?
> The second time, she clearly seemed eager to leave as soon as the meal was over, and we didn’t have two hours together.
Perhaps the allowance for the first meeting was too low, or maybe she didn’t enjoy the conversation.
That said, if the conversation had really been lively, she probably wouldn’t have seemed so eager to leave. Maybe you simply didn’t hit it off that well.
On apps, many women set their rate at ¥10,000 per hour for a meal, so two hours would generally come to ¥20,000.
Was that how things were arranged in your case?
The advantage of an hourly system on apps may be that, even if the conversation isn’t enjoyable, the amount they receive increases with each hour, giving them an incentive to stay together for as long as possible.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
Well…
If I’m having dinner with a papa I really adore, two hours flies by. If anything, I’d want to move somewhere we could be alone sooner.
If he starts getting restless after just two hours… I’d be worried about things going forward.
None of my business, sorry.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
“Huh?”
“Wait, has that much time already passed?”
When both of you are surprised at how quickly the time flew by, I think it’s a good sign that you’re well matched for a Type B arrangement.
You can probably tell from the first meeting.
After that, sometimes we’ll spend just around two hours together, or, if we have the time, take it easy for four to six hours. There have even been times when three or four hours had already passed before heading to the hotel.
If we’re going to meet, I want to see a woman I’d genuinely enjoy spending three or four hours with. So I also make an effort to ensure she has a good time.
When the conversation flows, simply meeting up becomes enjoyable. And if things really click, it can naturally progress from there…
Even when it comes to going to a hotel, it’s best to do so with someone you can enjoy spending several hours with—even if you’re only having dinner together.
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I’m in Seattle.
You don’t necessarily have to meet for four hours. When it’s dinner only, I usually spend about an hour and a half together.
I only continue with people I enjoy talking to. If that’s not the case, maybe you’re simply not a good match.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I generally plan to wrap up dinner dates after about two hours. But if my date and I just don’t click, I find myself wanting to leave as soon as possible.
If she seems that way, you probably aren’t having much fun either. Forget about someone you don’t click with and try making an offer to another woman who might be a better match.
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I’m a columnist and a “flag maker.”
I pay the allowance, but I feel more like I’m the one hosting and entertaining her. Sometimes things don’t click when the woman sees it as her role to entertain me too, haha.
Why not try approaching a date with that mindset for once?
That way, if the date isn’t satisfying, the cause lies with you.
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