A woman I’ve met several times recently told me that she started working part-time at a girls’ bar in a busy downtown entertainment district.
Apparently, she works until the early morning in a place frequented by many young people.
Under normal circumstances, this wouldn’t particularly concern me, but I’m still refraining from entertaining clients and similar activities myself.
She has asked me to meet again, but I’m feeling a little uneasy and am considering turning her down.
I don’t think avoiding nightlife venues completely guarantees that you won’t get infected, but I’ve been trying to avoid them as much as possible.
How would everyone respond in a situation like this?
I’d appreciate hearing your opinions.
I’d also like to answer this as Karasaki, a staff member at Universe Club Tokyo.
People’s attitudes toward COVID really vary. Some people are like me—very cautious, to the point of feeling uneasy even riding the train and uncomfortable seeing anyone without a mask—while others don’t worry about it at all.
I think the best approach is to simply ask her how she feels about COVID. Even if you manage to convince her to quit working at the girls’ bar, it won’t make much difference if she’s generally out socializing and having fun all the time.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
COVID spreads from person to person. Basically, the more opportunities you have to come into contact with others, the higher the risk of infection, so I think it’s best to date women who make an effort to avoid unnecessary contact.
Since I’m approaching old age, I try to avoid contact with large numbers of people whenever possible, and I also ask the women I date to do the same.
If she’s a favorite, why not increase her allowance to make up for the extra shifts she’s missing? In my experience, the women I date are also cooperative when it comes to preventing infection.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
If that’s all they meant to you, I think you should stop seeing them. But if you liked them more than that, I think you should keep meeting them.
You may regret it after ending things, and by then, you might not be able to go back to how things were. If you like them, don’t worry about unnecessary things—go ahead and keep seeing them.
Even if you don’t catch COVID, you could suddenly die tomorrow for some completely different reason.
COVID isn’t the only danger.
I think it’s best to continue in a way that won’t leave you with regrets.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male club member.
Since this is a club where both people have the chance to meet someone they’re genuinely looking for, I don’t think you should compromise or force yourself to put up with things.
If she’s that deeply involved in nightlife work, choosing not to see her—or at least reducing how often you meet—may lead you to your next good encounter.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If she’s someone I’d like to keep seeing, I’ll suggest meeting more often so she can earn roughly what she was hoping to make working at a girls’ bar.
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