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Oct 29, 2020 09:01
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柄崎 一成（スタッフ）
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Karakizaki from the Tokyo staff team here as well.
In terms of frequency, I’d say this is generally considered quite infrequent, but opinions can vary from person to person. If things are working well that way, I don’t see a problem.
Rather than focusing on how often you communicate, you might want to ask her directly whether she’s satisfied with seeing you about once every two months.
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Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I think it’s best to discuss it when you meet.
For me, only getting in touch when we’re going to meet—or meeting once every two months—isn’t really an option.
We exchange one message each day and meet every other week. From the woman’s perspective, it’s pay-per-meeting, but I arrange it so the total amount is fixed each month.
Since we started seeing each other, once she began to feel that she could reliably count on my support, we’ve never stopped communicating. The conversations aren’t anything profound, but we almost never run out of things to talk about.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer too.
Thank you for your question.
I’m not sure whether they’re simply someone who dislikes keeping in touch, but if things are going well right now, I think it’s fine to leave things as they are.
If you’re worried, you could ask them directly the next time you meet.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, and I let the woman take the lead.
If she reaches out wanting to meet, I meet her.
If she messages me on LINE, I reply.
So I think the woman should decide how often we message and meet.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
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Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
When you meet, don’t you ever talk about things like upcoming trips, a particularly busy period at work, or going to see a movie on a certain date?
For example, if they mention that work will be especially hectic around the 10th, remember it and send a casual “Good luck!” around then. I feel like that wouldn’t come across as annoying.
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Given that you meet only once every two months, she may simply be comfortable with keeping that kind of distance. If you try to change it, she might find it intrusive, just as you feel she does.
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This is Marika.
I’d be happier having one extra date than getting free “daily life updates” from him, and I think meeting once a month would also reduce the risk of him suddenly going silent compared with meeting once every two months.
But in reality, it depends on the person.