I’m Type A, but I received an offer from someone who lives far away… It’s okay to end things after dinner only, right? And if he says we should go to his room because nothing will happen, is it still okay to refuse?

Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this as well. Thank you for your question. Even if he lives far away, the meaning of Type A doesn’t change, so it’s perfectly fine to have dinner only and then part ways. That said, some men may say things like, “I’ve already spent this much on your transportation and accommodation, so do me a favor and come with me afterward.” Even if that comes up, please don’t feel sorry for him. If you don’t want to, make sure you can turn him down gently but clearly. In the first place, even if the man paid for transportation, accommodation, and the arrangement fee, those expenses don’t go to the woman, so they have nothing to do with her. “Let’s go to my room—we won’t do anything” is also a classic line, and it doesn’t mean nothing will happen. If you’re not interested, I think it’s better not to go to his room. Of course, if he offers an allowance of more than five figures, or he’s exactly your type and you like him, you’re free to accept. Just make your decision so you won’t regret it.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Even with a Type D membership, you can still say no. If she’s Type A, it’s a mistake to go in expecting to invite her into an adult relationship (intimate). So I don’t think there’s any problem with going with the understanding that it’s dinner only (no intimacy). If you happen to be invited to a room, I think it’s important to firmly decline.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Since you’re an A-type member, men make their offers understanding that it’s dinner only (no intimacy), so it’s perfectly fine to turn them down. If anyone gets pushy, you should contact your club representative.