Tips Oct 25, 2020 11:18

I’m a male member, and I have a question about seeing a Type B woman.

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If we’ve met for dinner twice and I’m considering taking things toward an adult relationship (intimate) from the third meeting onward, I’m wondering whether I should tell her beforehand that I’d like our next meeting to be on the understanding that we may have an adult relationship, or whether it would be better to ask her depending on the atmosphere when we meet. I’ve heard that when women enter into an adult relationship, they want to prepare in various ways—not just emotionally. Would it be better to invite her to take things in that direction during the meeting, based on the atmosphere at the time?
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Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here. Thank you for your question. I think it’s fine to keep the first two meetings to dinner only. However, since this is a dating club, I think that with a Type B woman, you should briefly bring up what you’re looking for toward the end of the first dinner—namely, that you’re hoping for an adult relationship (intimate) and have a certain allowance in mind. If she says she’s not ready by the second meeting, you can let her know that the third meeting would be fine as well. If you don’t discuss the allowance, she may misunderstand and think you’re looking for a romantic partner. She may also assume that you’re only interested in dinner dates. Of course, everyone has their own approach. Even with a Type B woman, there may be men who are willing to wait six months or even a year until she brings it up herself. But generally, I think most women would prefer you to make your intentions clear within a few dates.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m not sure why the question specifies “from the third date onward,” so I’ll explain how I interact with B-type women. **First date** I don’t bring up an adult relationship (intimate) myself. Women often ask what kind of relationship I’m looking for or what the allowance would be for an adult relationship. When that happens, we discuss and decide whether to have an adult relationship that day or the next time we meet. (I don’t expect an adult relationship on the first date with a B-type woman, so I often already have plans afterward and end up postponing it until the next date.) **LINE after the first date** When we’re discussing when to meet next, the topic of the allowance—or the allowance for an adult relationship—may come up. In that case, I decide whether we’ll go to a hotel while also discussing what we’ll eat on the next date. **Second date** It’s quite rare, but sometimes we have a second date over dinner without discussing an adult relationship at all. Once she agrees to an adult relationship and we’ve agreed on the allowance, I think it’s best to simply ask whether she’d like to do it that day or another time. I believe I asked, “Would you like to do it today or next time?” She said today was fine, so I booked a hotel online using my phone. So my answer is: “Once she agrees to an adult relationship, ask whether she’d like to do it that day or the next time you meet.”
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