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I’m a 31-year-old single mother. I’ve heard that some single mothers also register, but do you all disclose that you have children? I look young for my age and don’t look like I have children, so people are often surprised at first. I’d like to know how other single mothers who are registered handle this. I’m nervous that I might be rejected at the interview because I’m not confident about my looks, but I’m thinking of applying. I’d appreciate any answers. Thank you in advance.
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Tokyo staff member Karasaki here. I don’t get the impression that there are that many men who are put off by women with children. As long as you’re able to go on dates consistently, having children shouldn’t be a problem. If you lie during the interview, you’ll be registered as a woman without children—but ultimately, you’ll be the one who struggles later on. For example, you may have difficulty going on evening dates because you need to make dinner, or you may be unavailable on certain days because your child has school or kindergarten. If you’re honest and tell them upfront that you have children, men who make you an offer will understand and work with you to arrange dates. Otherwise, they may become frustrated and see you as someone who can never coordinate schedules, despite having no clear reason. If you want to find a good papa, I think it’s best not to lie.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. Thank you for your question. > Do all of you disclose whether you have children? There’s a section in the profile where you can indicate whether you have children, so it’s generally disclosed. Since it’s self-reported, of course, someone could lie. But if you start seeing someone based on a lie and you have young children, it could end up making both of you unhappy—for example, if he invites you on a trip and you’re unable to go. If a man isn’t interested in traveling together, many would probably feel that whether you have children or not doesn’t really matter. So I think it’s best to be honest and meet someone who’s okay with it.
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