I’m posting because I don’t know where else to direct this frustration.
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I made an offer to a Gold Rank, Type C woman to coincide with a business trip.
I met her at 7:30 p.m. and we went to eat at the sushi restaurant I had reserved, but partway through the meal she started worrying about the time, so we left after just an hour. When I invited her to continue afterward, she told me she had to be home by 10:00 p.m. When I asked why, she said she was going to a cosplay party with friends starting at 10:30 p.m.
I had reserved a city hotel and was looking forward to spending time together, but she said we wouldn’t make it unless we went to a nearby love hotel. We ended up parting ways at 9:30 p.m. It was a pretty terrible experience. I regret not simply ending things after dinner. That part was my own mistake.
As for a woman’s appearance, personality, and compatibility, you can’t know until you meet her, so I can ultimately accept any outcome. I don’t believe Universe is responsible.
In this case, though, the issue was the limited time available. Couldn’t I have been informed beforehand that she couldn’t secure four hours? I could have made an offer to a different woman.
It seems the email sent to the woman states that she needs to set aside four hours. Since I paid an introduction fee, I have no choice but to consider this a mistake on Universe’s part.
What does everyone think?
Maezawa from the club’s office here with an answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
I was convinced that, given the intensity of this post, you must have submitted it to the question box on the very day of the date. I searched everywhere, but couldn’t find it, so apparently it wasn’t that day.
I wondered if it might have been another day and found some similar post-date feedback. However, when the staff checked with the woman, she said something like, “I thought it was three hours. I’m sorry.”
Even though it clearly says four hours every time—and she must have gone on dates before—my impression is that she knew exactly what she was doing.
That said, even if she thought it was three hours, the timing still doesn’t seem to add up. It says, “Cosplay party with friends from 10:30 p.m.” Perhaps she was used to men in the past letting her stay until 10:30 p.m., and somehow had the impression that this time, too, she had said she was okay until then.
In any case, she sounds like a terrible person. I really feel for you.
To be blunt, the club was deceived as well. Universe is also a victim here. We’re sorry we failed to see through her.
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I’m male member Fullerene!
This is quite a difficult situation. I can certainly understand how you feel.
Even though there’s a rule that you’re supposed to keep four hours open, let’s say she had another appointment afterward and ended things after just two hours with dinner only.
Even if you filed a complaint, if she had already told the club, “I couldn’t think of a good way to turn him down,” that would effectively neutralize the complaint.
(Though it probably wouldn’t work if she did this every time.)
On the other hand, in this particular case, she might say, “I tried to explain that I didn’t have enough time, but he pressured me into it.”
In the end, Universe can only rely on objective facts, so this situation may not immediately result in a penalty. However, if her complaint rate is high, it will still become an issue. So, for the sake of the other members, the club may simply record complaints that genuinely seem valid and avoid offering her to new members as much as possible.
More importantly, though, isn’t the real question whether you can enjoy seeing each other from the second meeting onward?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think you should simply leave factual feedback, such as: “The woman had not set aside four hours.”
I believe the setup fee is compensation for arranging the date. That’s why points apparently can be refunded when there’s an operational error in the arrangement process. You can find the details in the “Important Notes and Requests” section, accessible through Help and the Membership Terms on the PC member page.
However, I don’t think this case qualifies as an operational error. It seems the woman simply ignored the club’s request and failed to let you know in advance that she couldn’t set aside four hours.
I understand why you’re disappointed, but I think this is a matter of her personality. If the after-dinner relationship wasn’t good enough for you to overlook that, just move on to the next one. Hopefully you’ll meet a more reasonable woman next time!
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I’m a column writer, Flag Maker.
I understand how you feel, but if I didn’t have that kind of time, I wouldn’t go to a love hotel.
I’d have dinner, say goodbye, look up at the night sky, let out a sigh, and think, “Well then, time to call a delivery escort service,” before giving one a call.
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