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Oct 22, 2020 20:13
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We exchanged contact information and sent each other thank-you messages, but I haven’t heard from him since…
How do you all keep the conversation going?
(I’m a female member who just joined.)
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👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Thanks for your question.
First, have you sent him a message thanking him for the meal? Many men won’t invite a woman out again if she doesn’t even send a thank-you message.
So start by sending your thanks. Then follow up with something like:
“When can we meet next? I’m available on this day and that day.”
If he still doesn’t reply, he may have disliked something, so I think it’s best to wait for an offer from another man.
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Do you mean a date where you just meet for tea? The approach will probably vary depending on the relationship type and how the first date went, but I think it’s common for a woman to wait a week or two and then message something like, “I’d love to see you again.”
Just saying you want to meet again can feel a little impersonal, so it would be better to add a brief comment related to something you had an interesting conversation about during the first date.