I love having my head stroked and would like it to happen, so I was a little surprised to see an earlier answer saying that some people dislike having their hair touched. Are having your head stroked and having your hair touched considered different? The men I meet here never stroke my head, so I wondered whether they might be mindful of opinions like that… What do you think?
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It feels kind of funny to say out loud that I want someone to stroke my head, too.
I’m Rin, a female member.
I really like being gently stroked or having my head completely wrapped in someone’s arms and hugged—but honestly, it depends on the person.
So from a man’s perspective, it can feel like a bit of a gamble, which is probably why many hold back and wait to see how things go.
If you want that kind of affection, why not try wrapping your arms around him, giving him a tight hug, and asking sweetly? Letting him know that it’s okay to stroke, touch, or hug you is also important for building a good relationship.
It may feel embarrassing, but go ahead and be affectionate♡
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering as well.
Thank you for your question.
> It feels kind of silly to say outright that I want him to stroke my head.
If you’re in a private room, I don’t think there’s anything strange about it. If you want him to stroke your head, you should tell him.
I get the feeling that when the two of you are alone in a room, there are very few things that would actually be weird to say.
Also, from a man’s perspective, some women don’t like being touched that way, so many men probably play it safe and choose not to stroke her head.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I usually try different ways of touching to see what each woman likes. The part I’m most careful about is touching her head. It’s easy to tell right away when a woman doesn’t want her hair touched—the expression on her face changes instantly.
There could be many reasons: she may not want a man she’s just met to touch her so casually, she may not want to be touched with hands that might have been who-knows-where during the adult relationship (intimate), or she may not want the hassle of fixing her hair afterward. In any case, I feel that women who have taken the time to style their hair beautifully tend to be especially reluctant to have it touched.
I think it’s perfectly fine to say what you want. That way, you can both enjoy yourselves more.
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I’m Kazu, a male member who doesn’t do the head-patting thing.
I thought about why. To begin with, I’ve never had the urge to pat someone’s head. On top of that, I don’t particularly like having my own head patted either.
I don’t feel like doing it, and I don’t see any reason to do something to a woman that I personally don’t enjoy having done to me. That’s the answer I came up with in my case.
If I heard that she liked being patted, I might do it occasionally.
> Mack
> I see! You may simply have grown up with parents who didn’t do that either. Maybe it’s a difference in upbringing.
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