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Oct 21, 2020 13:19
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At the first meeting, we agreed over dinner that an adult relationship (intimate) afterward was okay.
When I asked her if there was anything she wouldn’t do, she said there wasn’t anything in particular.
Since I specifically requested that I really enjoy receiving oral sex, we moved to a room.
But when it was time for her to give me oral sex on the bed, she said she couldn’t do it without a condom.
She also said she asks her boyfriend and other papas (male supporters) to use one as well.
Since I prefer kissing and oral sex to penetration, I felt there wouldn’t be a second date.
To the male respondents: Have you had a similar experience?
To the female respondents: Do you wear a condom when giving oral sex?
2 answers
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well.
Thank you for your question.
I’m guessing that people who prefer going without protection have been spreading this kind of seemingly logical—but perhaps frustration-driven—argument:
“If you’re worried about infections when a woman asks you to use a condom, then using one during oral sex is pointless unless you wear one then, too.”
As a result, it seems like using condoms during oral sex is gradually becoming the norm as well.
I worry that before long, people may start wearing medical gloves because they’re concerned about secondary transmission through their hands.
We’ve entered an era where it’s hard to know what the right answer is anymore.
With that in mind, I hope you’ll look for someone who’s compatible with you.
That said, from a woman’s perspective, it’s only natural to wonder, “Aren’t you worried about infections?”
So please, whatever you do, don’t get angry with or lecture your partner.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t have any personal experience with it, but apparently there are women who do that. I hear that many women who do work involving their throats choose to do so. It was a topic of discussion on an anonymous Q&A site before.