Tips Oct 21, 2020 10:22

Would a psychiatrist be put off if I told them I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?

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It’s been taking a toll on me, and I’d like to talk about it, but could you tell me some alternative terms for papa-katsu?
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I’m Rin, a female member. There are all kinds of doctors, but if you’ve been seeing this doctor and have found some kind of direction, gained insight, or felt helped along the way, then there should already be a relationship of trust. I think it would be okay to open up about how you feel. There’s no need to put on an act—the other person is a professional, so it’s fine to express yourself honestly. There really are all kinds of people, but that’s true in every profession. Not all doctors are driven by profit. There are countless doctors who continue to sincerely engage with their patients on the front lines. Please don’t let this weigh too heavily on you.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I’m not a professional, so I’d hate to make things worse, but I’ve experienced mental health issues myself and understand papa-katsu, so I can at least listen if that would help. If you’re okay with talking to me, please contact me using the information below. “Papa-katsu Advice Desk” — How to Apply ・Please email the following address with details ①–④: [ onayami@aol.com ] ① Your Universe Club member number and club name ② The number of offers you’ve received so far ③ A brief summary of your concerns ④ Your preferred consultation method (written or in-person)
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Joe. The Universe Club girls I used to see were completely open with their assigned counselor and held nothing back. I would proofread the wording of the messages she sent to her counselor for her. I also got to read the counselor’s replies, and they were far from making her pull back. Rather than offering advice, it felt like the counselor was simply drawing her out and getting her to talk. I remember thinking that, even though it was their job, it must have been tough. She explained what she was doing without using the term papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). The one line I remember was, “As usual, my sex life is completely out of control.”
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. Thank you for your question. Since he’s only human, he might be taken aback internally, but I don’t think he would show it on his face or in his attitude. I believe he would listen to you properly. That said, aren’t there other people who would be willing to listen to you too?
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