About five months ago, a man made me an offer, and we were emailing back and forth about scheduling our second date. However, our schedules didn’t work out because of my availability, and we gradually lost touch.
Things have settled down with work and other commitments, and I’d really like to see him again. However, since we only met once and it’s already been five months since our last contact, I’m unsure whether I should reach out.
If someone you made an offer to several months ago suddenly contacted you, how would you feel about it?
I’m Fullerene, a male member!
They may well think you were just politely turning them down, so try inviting them again and show how much you want to see them!
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
First of all, my approach to relationships is different—in my case, once we start seeing each other, we exchange one email back and forth every day—so I can’t really say for sure. But as they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Why not try sending a casual message?
And if you don’t get a reply, that’s fine too, isn’t it?
If I were the one receiving the email, I’d reply, “I’m glad to hear you’re doing well.”
As for whether I’d be available for a date, I’d have to say, “I’m sorry,” if I already had someone I was seeing.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, and I’ll answer your question as well.
Thank you for your question.
If the reason was that you were unavailable, something along the lines of:
“I’m sorry I couldn’t make time before because I was so busy with work. I’d been thinking about you, but things have finally settled down. If you’re interested, would you like to meet again?”
might make me think, “Maybe I’ll meet her for now.”
And even if I wasn’t particularly excited before meeting, I feel like I might get excited the moment we met.
If you don’t get a reply, it simply means he wasn’t that interested, so I think you should move on and look for a new man.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t really think anything in particular about it. I just assume they want a partner for one reason or another.
If I’m already fully booked when I receive the message, I simply think, “I’ve had enough,” and quietly close it. If I still have availability, I’m happy to meet.
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