I have several papas, but none of them have ever fallen deeply in love with me. Even in the answers here and in conversations with my other papa-katsu friends, I hear about papas sincerely telling them how cute they are or how much they love them, and giving them presents. It makes me think, “That must be nice—I’m jealous.” What kind of girls do papas fall head over heels for? Looks are important too, right?
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What do you do to make them fall deeply in love with you? I’d really appreciate your advice.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thanks for your question.
Everyone has different tastes, so I think the way to make someone fall head over heels for you needs to be tailored to that person.
For example, act modest and reserved with a man who likes that kind of woman, or be more assertive with someone who prefers strong-willed women.
First, it’s important to figure out what kind of women he likes.
At the very least, the fact that he made you an offer and continues to see you means he likes you to some extent. He may actually like you quite a lot.
However, it’s also possible that he’s holding back because he thinks he might be disliked if he shows his feelings and comes across as too interested.
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I’m Rin, a female member.
If you want to be loved, then love in return.
People often say I’m all about love, but I’m actually the youngest-child type who loves being spoiled, so I tend to be the one receiving more.
That said, I try to make sure I have the maturity to understand the boundaries and take responsibility for my actions.
When someone becomes completely devoted to you, it can be difficult—but also very rewarding—to love them properly without letting yourself get too swept up in their feelings, and to continue cherishing each other.
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I’m a lost 60-something.
From one of Megumi’s papas and a potential brother of Mac…
Megumi, that’s a wonderful perspective.
I’m already completely smitten! (^◇^;)
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Megumi, with your papa (Mac) right there in front of you, I think people reading your answer may find it hard to take it at face value—it feels a little awkward. ^^;
You may not have noticed, so I just wanted to offer a small criticism for the sake of balance.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> No one has ever fallen completely head over heels for me.
As for being “head over heels,” I don’t think there are many people who are that crazy about someone.
That said, when a woman genuinely opens up to me and comes toward me, I do find myself wanting to accept her（笑）
First of all, I recommend facing your papa (a male supporter) sincerely.
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Seattle.
It’s simple.
Just tell him, “I love you. I genuinely think you’re so cool.”
If you put on an act, I’d be fooled in no time and start giving you presents.
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I’m Marika, a female member.
Honestly, it’s best if they don’t fall completely head over heels for you. I almost wish I could ask you how to keep things going smoothly without making them fall that hard.
I’ve never made any particular effort, either.
A little while ago, someone asked about being the eldest daughter and not knowing how to act spoiled. I’m probably more of a typical younger-sister type. I’m getting older, but I think I’m pretty good at being pampered.
And then there’s physical compatibility, I suppose. I don’t really understand it myself, but they seem to like me.
Having them fall too deeply can honestly be exhausting at times. If things are going well and you’re receiving your allowance, then I think your approach is perfectly fine.
As for your appearance, the fact that they’re making you an offer in the first place means you’ve already passed the basic standard, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
P.S.
I see… Hearing Megumi’s opinion makes a careless woman like me feel embarrassed. I’m sorry, papas.
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