I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s unusual for feedback to be written in the club’s comments section.
If it really is a lie, why not ask the man who brought it up to submit feedback saying, “What’s written here in the comments was false”?
If it’s the kind of lie a man can verify himself, such as “She had a tattoo,” I think it would be better to have him confirm it first and then submit the feedback.
I just thought of one type of feedback that might appear in the club’s comments: whether or not someone smokes. But I can’t imagine anyone submitting feedback saying, “She smoked,” when she didn’t, so it must be something else.
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
As a rule, women generally can’t see the contents of men’s profiles, and men are not allowed to show them to women either. So you would have to explain how you found out about it. In that case, you would also need to disclose the man’s name. (If you don’t give his name, they may simply tell you, “It isn’t written there,” and end the matter.)
There is a possibility that the man could be forcibly removed from the club.
Also, depending on the staff member, if you raise an issue about the profile content, they may assume that you’re a difficult customer. You could then be hidden from view for being seen as a complainer, meaning you might suddenly stop receiving offers without knowing why.
In the case of men, the club may internally mark them as complainers, but they can still continue using the service as normal. (If it happens several times or more, even a man will be forcibly removed.)
For that reason, it’s probably safest not to mention the profile directly.
That said, I understand how upsetting it must be to see lies written about you. If you can think of a reason it might have been written and suspect who the man was, I suggest writing feedback about your date with him, even now.
You could say something along the lines of: “There was this kind of trouble, so perhaps the man told this kind of lie, but I also had a very difficult experience.” I think that would be a good approach.
However, if you write something like “Please punish this man,” you may be treated as a complainer. So I recommend focusing strictly on reporting the facts: “This is what happened.”
In doing so, the information written in the profile might possibly be corrected.
Also, once you log in, you can post your own comment. It would be a good idea to deny the false claims there as well.
When writing it, try to put yourself in the man’s position and consider how to explain things so that readers will see your side as the more credible one.
If you simply write things in a straightforward way, the club’s comment may come across as more convincing.
