I feel like one of my papas is starting to lose interest in me. I’m lonely. Is there any way to get him to cherish me again? Or should I be the one to walk away? What should I do??? ( / _ ; )

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer this one too. Thank you for your question. It depends on the man, so I think it would be a good idea to first consider what might be causing it. Rather than simply getting bored, he may have found someone he thinks is better. If that’s the case, I think you should find a better man as well.

I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. Since men are giving you an allowance, I’m sorry to put it bluntly, but I think some men do have the feeling that they’re “buying a service.” Perhaps you’re not providing whatever “something” this particular man is looking for. Whether a relationship continues is often summed up with the word “compatibility.” But I believe effort can keep it going too. People say continuing a relationship comes down to compatibility. Maybe that’s why some women try to date as their “true selves”—not doing anything they dislike or forcing themselves. If that works, it certainly makes things easier for both sides. But I think some men get bored with that kind of relationship. What is it? Once a man gets to know a woman’s “true self,” he may feel a certain sense of accomplishment, but perhaps—excuse the rude expression—he starts to sense a certain “shallowness” and loses interest. Be friendly, but not overly familiar. Keep a little mystery and remain somewhat unknowable. That’s what keeps him from getting bored. I get the feeling that some wealthy men are looking for this kind of woman in a partner. You shouldn’t be the one worrying—make the man worry instead, haha. Push and pull, act suggestively, and let him misunderstand things just enough. Men’s thinking is actually pretty simple. Sorry if I’ve completely missed the mark. If you’d like to discuss your situation with me privately, please apply for the “Papa-Katsu Advice Room” using the information below. I also offer free tarot readings, haha. 【How to Apply】 ・Please send an email to the address below containing items ① through ⑤. [onayami@aol.com] ① Your Universe Club member number and club name ② The number of offers you’ve received so far ③ A brief summary of your concern ④ Your preferred consultation method (non-face-to-face or face-to-face) ⑤【Optional】Whether you would like a tarot reading ⑥ If you choose a face-to-face consultation, whether you would like a female member to sit in For details, please see the column: https://universe-club.jp/column/onayamisoudan

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. It depends on how long you’ve been seeing each other. If it’s only been a short time, then it may simply come down to chemistry and whether it was meant to be… But if it’s been a reasonable length of time, there’s still plenty of potential. This is probably the stage where it’s important to treat each other with the sincere and humble feelings you had at the beginning, as naturally as you can. As you get more comfortable, you may start showing your true selves and becoming more demanding. It can be nice when that happens, but some of the things you reveal—whether genuine or naturally selfish—could also end up bothering the other person. Since neither of you will usually go out of your way to point out things you dislike, it’s important to notice them and make adjustments early. By the time you realize what’s going on, the other person may already have lost interest…

I’m Kazu, a male member who often hears women he meets for first dates worry that things with the same man only last two or three meetings. Whenever I hear that, one thought crosses my mind: “Maybe the sex is boring.” There’s no quick fix for making someone stop finding you boring as a conversational partner. Suddenly coming up with more things to talk about or changing your personality is difficult. I think it’s easier to keep things from getting boring in bed. If you feel like your papa (a male supporter) is starting to lose interest, why not try making him happy? Bringing some new stimulation into the bedroom might make him want to cherish you again.