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I’m a male member, and I have a question about the female members’ videos asking, “Are you more S or M?” I’ve understood it as S = the woman takes the lead and the man is passive, while M = the man takes the lead and the woman is passive. Is that right? A woman I met the other day said, “I’m M, so I like doing things for someone.” I’ve never really thought about it before—how should I understand this?

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Meg
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I’m Meg, a female member. Haha! So Mac is an L, huh? ♪ You’re always so funny~
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I’m Marika, a female member. M-types are the ones who serve their masters or queens, too.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here, too. Thanks for your question. I hadn’t realized that we were interpreting it differently. If that’s the case, then you’d have to explain first that S is this kind of person and M is that kind of person before asking, otherwise the question wouldn’t really make sense. Basically, I think your understanding is correct. If I try to make sense of the woman’s comment, “I’m an M, so I like doing things for someone,” perhaps she sees doing things for someone as a considerably painful act, and believes that enduring something so painful in order to do it for them is what makes her an M. If so, then the person who endures is the M, which would make sense. But we won’t know the truth unless we ask that woman herself.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. This isn’t actually my question, haha. As I briefly mentioned in one of my columns, people interpret S and M differently, so I think it would be better to describe them as “likes taking the lead” or “likes being submissive,” for example.
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