Tips Oct 13, 2020 22:53

I’m a male member. When do you think I should discuss the allowance and other terms with a Type B woman? I understand that inviting her to an adult relationship (intimate) on the first meeting isn’t allowed, so I’m thinking about the second meeting or later. This probably depends on her age and how long she’s been registered with the club (and how accustomed she is to it), but since she joined the club for a reason, should I bring up the allowance sooner rather than later? Please assume that we’ve agreed to continue seeing each other after the second meeting. Thank you.

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Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering your question. Thank you for asking. With Type B, it’s best not to invite her to an adult relationship on the first day. However, if you don’t discuss meeting again after that, she may misunderstand and think, “Is he here looking for a girlfriend? I’m not here for that, so I won’t be able to see him again.” So during dinner, keep the conversation enjoyable, and when the meal is coming to an end, I think it’s better to discuss future meetings and the terms of the arrangement. Incidentally, even if a woman doesn’t like the terms, she’ll probably say she’s fine with them at the time. That makes it difficult—you need to present terms that she won’t be uncomfortable with. Since you’re looking through the Q&A posts, you probably have a general idea of what kind of terms are acceptable. If you’re unsure, it’s safer to offer a little more. Of course, it also depends on whether you absolutely don’t want to let that particular woman go, or whether you feel you can simply look for someone else if things don’t work out. I recommend deciding while taking those factors into consideration.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. If a woman has had an adult relationship (intimate) before, I bring it up at the first meeting. If she hasn’t, I wait until the second meeting. I do this because a relatively inexperienced woman at the club once jumped to conclusions and got upset when I mentioned the allowance amount at our first meeting—even though I hadn’t said I wanted an adult relationship that day.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. I usually bring it up toward the end of the first meeting, regardless of her type. With women who are type C or D, I invite them afterward, but with type A or B, I end the conversation by saying something along those lines. I came to think that telling them early gives them more information to make their decision.
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