Tips Oct 12, 2020 23:41

I’m a platinum member in my 50s, and I’ll soon have been with the club for three years. I’m asking because I’m curious about the intentions or goals behind female members changing their dating type. If anyone has experienced the situation described below, I’d appreciate hearing about it.

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Have any of you offered to meet a woman who changed her dating type from B to D? If so, what did you assume her intention was when you made the offer? And for any women who have changed from type B to type D, what was your reason for doing so? I’d appreciate your input, as I’d like to use it as a reference when deciding about future offers. The reason I’m asking is that I noticed a 20-year-old GOLD member with type B at a large branch in one of the major cities—not my registered branch. When I saw her profile on the site, I thought, “I’d make an offer if she were type C.” Then, about a month after registering, her profile was flagged for new photos, and her dating type had changed to D. I’m thinking of asking the branch about the reason for the change, but could the reason for changing from B to D simply be that she wanted to receive more offers? If so, I can’t help wondering whether that might make her come across as too focused on the work or money. Personally, I’d prefer to avoid meeting women who give off that kind of businesslike, money-focused impression. At the same time, from a woman’s perspective, she wants to receive offers, so I can understand why she might choose type D to broaden her options. Also, being type D doesn’t mean she’ll accept just anyone—she can always decline an adult relationship (intimate) if she doesn’t want one. So she might reasonably think it’s fine to change to type D. Those were the thoughts that made me consider making an offer.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, Fullerene! Going from B to D is pretty rare. If she simply wanted to increase the number of offers, I’d think she would start with C, so… It’s also possible that she met various people and, based on her actual experience, decided, “I can probably go for most Universe members,” and changed to D. You should definitely ask her directly! By the way, after I made an offer to someone who was rated D, she changed to A before we even went on the date. I guess I’d already been rejected at that point—lol.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer this one as well. Thank you for your question. I think the change from B to D probably means she either wasn’t receiving any offers or had only received one. She chose B thinking she would still get offers as long as she didn’t choose A, but for some reason, none came. Then she may have switched to D to see whether perhaps she wouldn’t get any offers even with C. It seems many women misunderstand this, but if you think D gets the most offers, you’re mistaken. Many men dislike D because it feels too professional, so C is actually the most popular. Next is B. Unlike C, women who want to keep H in consideration while also enjoying meals and the companionship of another person tend to prefer B.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Since I figured this question might not get many answers, I’ll give my two cents—even though I’ve never made an offer to a woman who changed her type from B to D. I have made offers to D-type women, but none of them were especially money-minded. I’ve also made quite a few offers to B-type women. Some chose B because they wanted to feel things out first. Others were really A-type but switched to B because they weren’t getting any offers. Some were actually C-type but chose B because they found it difficult to turn men down face-to-face. There are all kinds of reasons. In other words, you can’t tell what a woman is thinking from her dating type alone. As Mac said in his answer here—https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4549—I think the types mainly indicate how quickly things may progress. Why not make an offer, meet her, and then decide whether to bring up an adult relationship? Either way, neither you nor the woman can know whether you click until you meet—and become intimate. As an aside, I wrote that you can’t tell a woman’s intentions from her dating type alone. That said, I sometimes wonder whether A-type women are actually more likely to be money-minded—not all of them, of course—because they may hope to receive an allowance just for tea or dinner. I tend to like B- through D-type women better, since they seem more straightforward when dealing with men.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. I did some research, and apparently there are “Liar-gons” saying things like: “Even D types will meet without an adult relationship.” “Oh, really? Then I’ll switch to D too.” These days, A types are showing up not only among the B types, but also among the C and D types… Those Liar-gons must be lying… It looks like not only Money-gons, but Liar-gons are popping up too.
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