I end up falling for the men I meet so quickly. I have several papa (male supporters), but I love all of them very deeply, more or less equally. Unlike other women, I can’t keep my feelings detached by telling myself it’s just work. I really respect all the women who can do that…!
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Of course, I tell myself that these are only romantic feelings within the dating club, but I still feel lonely when I can’t see them, and I find myself waiting for emails from my papas. I envy their wives, who get to see them every day. From the perspective of male members, are women like me—this emotionally needy—unappealing? When I see my papas, I end up hugging them and saying, “I love you so much!” and stay cuddled up to them the whole time, so I’m worried they might think I’m a troublesome woman…
I’d love to hear everyone’s opinions.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thank you for your question.
> I have several papas (male supporters).
So I don’t think he feels as strongly about it as you do. And if you keep telling him how much you like him, I imagine he feels pretty good about himself.
As long as you continue having multiple papas, I think everything should be fine.
He may be a little embarrassed when he gets overly affectionate while you’re together, but I don’t think he actually minds.
Since you don’t have to worry about other people’s eyes inside a room, I’d say he probably welcomes it.
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This is Kaede Kosaka from the Chiba branch.
I agree with Megumi that we need to be careful not to let feelings of envy toward his wife spiral out of control.
That said, some gentlemen do want a relationship that resembles a romantic one, so they may actually be pleased by those kinds of feelings.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
There are men who like women like that, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it.
Compared with women who build everything on lies and acting, somehow manage to get money out of men, and then happily celebrate their windfall, I think she has a much more genuine outlook.
Keep liking them, as long as it doesn’t reach stalker level, and continue giving your papas plenty of love.
I’m sure you’re the kind of woman who will be happier in the future than those who deceive men to get money out of them.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m genuinely happy when the woman I’m seeing likes me, and as long as she keeps those feelings within the relationship club, I don’t find it too much. But when she starts showing signs of wanting to take things beyond the club, I become pretty wary.
I’m not into being hugged or having someone constantly cling to me. That said, I do welcome passionate sex. Still, I think men who don’t enjoy that kind of clinginess are probably in the minority.
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