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Oct 9, 2020 16:11
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
In that case, let’s go to karaoke or a bar and get to know each other better…
Maybe a different light will shine through…
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
It’s not necessarily a lie that she receives an allowance of that amount.
Whether you’ve ever been turned down in the past is irrelevant when it comes to the allowance—it’s a matter of the woman’s values. If you wanted an adult relationship (intimate), then I don’t think there was any solution other than offering 100,000 yen.
There’s nothing to be gained from dwelling on something that had no solution, so consider this a missed connection and look for your next new encounter.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I’ll answer this one too.
Thank you for your question.
> Is what she said really true?
I definitely think it’s true. Some people receive more than 10—not just 10.
When a woman becomes popular, she tends to meet better men as well.
And I also believe it’s true that she feels bad accepting less from the people giving her 10.
Some men also keep their allowance the same because they’d feel bad giving other women less, right?
It’s the same thing.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m actually in the exact opposite situation—I’m seeing someone who’s happy with a modest allowance—but I can understand that woman’s feelings very, very well.
I’d feel bad accepting another woman’s offer when she’d be giving me a higher allowance than the woman I’m currently seeing.
So lately, I’ve found myself unable to make any offers at all...
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I feel like specifying 0.5 made me come across as cheap, which may have been a mistake. If I’d just offered 7, perhaps things would have gone differently.
I’m only guessing, but maybe she intended the total to be 7—0.5 for transportation plus 6.5.
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Other
Takahashi, the Kanto unit manager, would also like to respond.
Thank you for your question.
To be honest, as a staff member, I haven’t personally experienced how allowance negotiations typically go between the people involved, so members likely have more experience than I do, and it’s difficult for me to offer much advice. However, I have heard of women who genuinely hoped to receive a substantial allowance even for dinner only (no intimacy).
Under company policy, staff aren’t allowed to get involved in financial negotiations, but it’s true that everyone has different attitudes toward money.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member who keeps his allowance consistent because I’d feel bad toward the women I’m seeing otherwise.
I think 10 is a perfectly realistic amount. She probably happened to have a papa (a male supporter) who offered her 10.
You won’t know whether it was just an excuse unless you actually offer 10, but if she were turning you down over the allowance amount, she’d probably say 30 or 50.
As for haggling over it, 6.5 feels overly nitpicky—even to me, as a man—and comes across as rather disappointing.