I’m Mac, one of the people answering here. Since the debate over unprotected sex (ejaculation inside) is heating up again, I’ll add some fuel to the fire.

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After hearing everyone’s experiences, I was surprised by how many men apparently try to have unprotected sex whenever they see an opening. So, as for how to stop things from taking that turn, what do you think of this scenario? 1) Before entering into an adult relationship (intimate), record something like “Please absolutely wear a condom” and “Of course” in LINE or elsewhere. Verbal consent alone won’t leave any evidence, so it doesn’t count. 2) He ejaculates inside without your consent. 3) Visit a gynecologist and have the semen inside the vagina collected and preserved. 4) Tell the club, “I’m considering filing a complaint for rape, so please disclose his name and address.” (It would be preferable to do this through a lawyer.) 5) The club contacts the man to ask about the facts of the case, and so on. To meet the legal requirements for rape, there must be “assault or threats,” but proving that is difficult. Incidentally, some countries overseas have removed the “assault or threats” requirement and define sex without consent as a crime. However, if the club actually receives such an inquiry through a lawyer, and the evidence includes the LINE history and bodily fluids collected from inside the vagina, I would agree to a settlement. So, when dealing with a relatively wealthy man with social standing like me, the difficulty of proving assault or threats would not be an issue. What do you think? I’d love to hear everyone’s opinions. For now, women should make a habit of recording an exchange in LINE beforehand: “Please wear a condom.” “Okay.” Even on a first date with a C-type arrangement, say, “Sorry, but I’m going to send you a message by SMS. This is important, so could you please reply?” Maybe we should give this practice of recording consent in advance a name and turn it into a movement. “Not after-pill, but prior consent.” What do you think? Incidentally, unlike Kazu, I periodically encounter women who end up having unprotected sex with me. The reason is that it follows the exact same pattern every time: while the woman is on top, she plays by rubbing herself against my penis before I’ve put on a condom. We both get carried away, and I end up inserting it. Since she’s on top, she can get away, and I’m the one struggling to put it in without a condom—it’s that kind of play. But as we get closer, I end up inserting it. Right before I actually insert it, I do verbally confirm, “I’m going to put it in,” and she says, “Okay,” but from now on I’m seriously thinking of asking for consent and recording it on LINE. Also, to prevent my semen from being misused, I’ll probably start wrapping the condom in tissues and taking it home with me (lol).

Answer 1

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. Question: Thanks for adding fuel to the fire. > From now on, I’m thinking of asking for consent and keeping a record of it via LINE (seriously). I thought this was going to be a “Let’s Wear Condoms” campaign, but it turned out to be a “Let’s Properly Obtain Consent” campaign. (笑) Some people only skim-read, so they might not notice that. > Also, to make sure the semen isn’t misused, I think I’ll start wrapping the condom in tissue and taking it home with me. (笑) Taking the condom home... I’ve certainly heard stories about women who desperately want to have a child with someone they love retrieving condoms from the trash and taking them home, so I thought being rich must be tough. (笑) (There may even be cases where they’re after an inheritance.)

Answer 2

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I see—you mean leaving written proof so it doesn’t turn into a “you said this, I said that” situation. Even that alone would probably be a pretty strong deterrent. Any man with a bit of common sense would think, “If I go without protection with this girl, it could become a real headache.” On the other hand, you can also tell that a man who refuses to put things in writing is only that capable. I’ve also had women with whom I ended up going without protection, and it was a situation similar to Mac’s. Things got heated during foreplay, and she initiated penetration herself. In most cases like that, she’ll say, “Just finish outside,” and we continue. Even in those situations, I always finished outside—but does that mean it still isn’t enough to avoid the risk? Once it gets that far, it could be a setup for extortion. If we have to manage that risk too… maybe I should just use protection (lol).

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