I get the strong impression that men registered with clubs in regional areas tend to have poor manners.
(For example, forcibly pinning me down, or silently leaving without saying anything when they feel we’re not compatible, etc.)
I’ve never experienced any problems when meeting men registered in Tokyo.
However, I’ve had problems with men registered in regional areas about half the time, and I’ve reported them to the club.
It makes me anxious that the level of caution and screening may vary depending on where they’re registered.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
That said—
“Being forcibly held down with physical force”
Wouldn’t that constitute indecent assault if you reported it? (It depends on what happened after you were held down.)
Please be sure to report this to the club.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Hmm, could it be an issue with the area you registered in? There are probably at least a few men like that anywhere.
If you don’t want anyone getting forceful or find the chemistry incompatible, wouldn’t it make sense to choose relationship type A? Or just keep seeing men who don’t do those things. People are all different, so if you meet a large number of men, it’s only natural that the chances of running into that kind of trouble will increase.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Since this isn’t really a question, I wonder if it’ll be hidden.
Does the Tokyo branch actually remind members not to forcibly pin someone down, or not to silently walk out without saying a word just because they feel they’re not compatible? I don’t remember signing up for kindergarten.
From what I’ve seen in the Q&A box, it feels like there are more ill-mannered male members in Kanto. I assumed that was simply because Kanto has more members, so naturally there would be more people like that. But following the questioner’s logic, is it because the Kanto branches aren’t warning them?
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Once a man files a complaint, he’ll probably be viewed through the lens of being a troublemaker for life, since men’s opinions are rarely taken seriously anyway.
But if even half of a woman’s interactions end up causing trouble, she may also come to be seen as someone who isn’t particularly recommended—or whom they’d like to see leave the club soon.
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