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How much is it okay to rely on my papa (a male supporter)…?

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I earn about ¥150,000 a month, but ¥50,000 goes toward household expenses, and the rest is used up by my phone bill and other payments. Then I got a credit card, was scammed by a website, and now I have to pay around ¥300,000. Naturally, that’s more than I can afford even without my other expenses, so I’m thinking of asking my papa (a male supporter) to help me out, even if it’s only a little. How much is it okay to rely on him??
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member, and I think the question may be: “Is it possible to make up the 300,000 yen through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), using allowances from papas (male supporters)?” From the questioner’s perspective, 300,000 yen is equivalent to two months’ salary, so they must be desperate. As Maezawa-san mentioned, though, if the site misled them, it may be money they’re not obligated to pay in the first place. If the question is indeed about making up 300,000 yen through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), then a woman who can register with Universe, receive a reasonable number of offers, and find a papa (a male supporter) who continues seeing her should be able to earn 300,000 yen without too much difficulty. In the case of the woman I see once a week, I give her an allowance of 50,000 yen per pay-per-meeting, so she can earn 300,000 yen by meeting me six times. She has only received two offers, but I’d guess that more than half of the women registered as Type C have accepted two offers. Meeting once a week, she could make up the 300,000 yen in less than two months.
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I’m Flaren, a male member! > You were scammed by the site If you believe you were scammed, try consulting a lawyer through Houterasu, the Japan Legal Support Center (look it up). If you were truly scammed, I don’t think you need to pay. But if you made the decision to pay ¥300,000 and now feel obligated to pay as a result, then you should stop using words like “I was scammed.” “I was scammed” is something people say when they aren’t living their own lives.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. A papa (a male supporter) isn’t a bottomless source of money. Why should a papa have to pay back money that you were tricked out of? Your thinking is completely backward. If all you want is money, you’d be better off getting a part-time job—it’s more reliable. First, think very, very carefully about whether there’s any way you can cover it yourself.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Thank you for your question. > 50,000 yen goes to my family. I think your first step should be to talk to your parents and ask them to waive the 50,000 yen. If you pay back that 50,000 yen six times, it comes to 300,000 yen. There will actually be interest, so you may need a few more payments, but you should be able to pay it off a little over six months from now. I don’t think you necessarily need to rely on a papa (a male supporter). If you continue seeing your papa as usual, you’ll receive an allowance, so putting that toward the debt should help you pay it off sooner. Besides, if the website deceived you, it may be money you don’t even need to pay. Have you properly looked into that? I think you should do what you can on your own before relying on someone else, and only ask for help when you truly have no other options.
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